What Is The Motivation To A Married Man Having A 'Mistress' ?!

[blackestofpanthers]

Working :yes; I have been promoted recently.

And house hunting for my new place as we are moving somewhere bigger

Good shyt breh you know you always been the breh and i wish you the best

 

[Theraflu]

I agree though. Some of these dudes treat their mistresses better than their actual wives.

Hustling backwards.

But it's having lots of money and finite amount of remaining years to enjoy it. They get on the YOLO wave.

They do.



thats whats so bizarre about this concept, this dude stays coming in with one Cartier box or the other when he is off for 'lunch' (the 6 hour blocks we all know where he is going) but I ain't ever seen him buy shyt for his wife. All the extra shyt he does, I did't see him start doing it till he started with this 'mistress'

And all the big MDs and Partners in my investment bank have one of these girls...they legit spend so much money on them and take them on their business trips while their old wife stays at home. wtf kinda life is that my friend said when all is said and done he would have spent £2 million on this girl, thats so fukking expensive.

 

[Geek Nasty]

Because a lot of old wives get lazy as fukk. Lazy BJs, shytty attitudes, don't take care of themselves, shyt on their husbands, then some fine ass 25 year old looks at you like you're the shyt because you've got your shyt together unlike her broke ass 25 year old BF. Now, when you've got a beautiful young woman saying "shyt, i'd KILL for that life!" meanwhile you're going home to some tired ass complaining bytch, what you think is going to happen?

Only reason these dudes aren't bailing out is fukked up divorce laws.

 

[Elle Driver]

I agree though. Some of these dudes treat their mistresses better than their actual wives.

Hustling backwards.

But it's having lots of money and finite amount of remaining years to enjoy it. They get on the YOLO wave.

That's one thing I think is okay, is polygamy. Better than mistresses and definitely better than baby mothers. Maybe the thrill comes from it being infidelity. Either way it's strange and stupid behavior.

 

[Elle Driver]

I already told my husband, if he cheats, I'm taking everything he has. If he just leaves, I won't take anything but the stuff I own. He better be smart.

He's Arab so he'll just get another wife, if you're lucky you'll know. Otherwise she'll be a secret in some bedouin village.

 

[Theraflu]

You'd just marry another wife since that's what your people do though. A mistress is deceiving and disgusting.

Nice to see you @Theraflu

Hiya Elle :holmees:

 

[Reginald Noble]

smh couldn't be me. I'd rather be single that be with a dude that didn't give af about me and went out of his way to embarrass me.

Be an entitled privileged "strong/independent" woman in a 1st world country brehettes...

I already had a thread on this and Women will never accept it because it's too painful - If your Man doesn't want to fukk other Women he has low Testosterone and is likely not an Alpha nikka

The best Men in the world have multiple Women at their beck and call. CAC Masterflex "The Donald" just upgraded for a new model and he'll do it again once this one gets too old.

However, older Women can retain relevance and value by being the most intelligent and well informed Woman in the room. Obviously if you rely on your looks as a Woman it's a losing battle against time. But become an asset to a Man's financial success and he'll never dump you - Look at Hilary. Only reason Bill keeps her around is she is paying bills. And vice versa - She runs off of his name. CACs know that tenuous relationships must be maintained for the sake of long term wealth. Do you think they fukk ever? They probably haven't fukked since Monica incident. No one cares, Bill has his trollup hoes likely and Hilary gets her jollies from her power in offices. Everyone is "happy".

Meanwhile these young idealistic Women of color such as yourself won't be able to catch up to the lifestyle of these CAC feminists because you are too busy listening to what the dream is instead of watching what the reality of the lives they truly lead ACTUALLY ARE.

In some ways I feel sorry for Women like you, you were raised on Cinderella that White bytch and that CAC fakkit Prince Charming. He doesn't exist. The reality is far more gruesome but your Daddy or whoever wasn't able to break the news to you.

Well - Don't say no one ever told you.

I tell my Woman every day - Just because I want to hit the buns of some other chick doesn't mean I'm interested in her long term. She says she doesn't want to share me - But she'll come around eventually (She's not American and deluded). The reality is I'm not interested in sharing an actual life with any other Women. Because the majority don't have the intelligence level to keep up with me or stimulate my mind. But they can serve as a good fukk and toss them back into the market afterwards because that's all many Women are worth in this country.

The ones who are worth more - Believe it, they won't have a problem remaining a comfortable lifestyle as the Main - But if their smart they will tolerate the side hoes as long as they remain unseen, discrete and on the fringes. I'm not saying nikkas should parade in the streets with them or spend time holding hands with the bytches.

 

[Ashley Banks]

He's Arab so he'll just get another wife, if you're lucky you'll know. Otherwise she'll be a secret in some bedouin village.

He's not stupid he better just leave.

 

[Ashley Banks]

Be an entitled privileged "strong/independent" woman in a 1st world country brehettes...

I already had a thread on this and Women will never accept it because it's too painful - If your Man doesn't want to fukk other Women he has low Testosterone and is likely not an Alpha nikka

The best Men in the world have multiple Women at their beck and call. CAC Masterflex "The Donald" just upgraded for a new model and he'll do it again once this one gets too old.

However, older Women can retain relevance and value by being the most intelligent and well informed Woman in the room. Obviously if you rely on your looks as a Woman it's a losing battle against time. But become an asset to a Man's financial success and he'll never dump you - Look at Hilary. Only reason Bill keeps her around is she is paying bills. And vice versa - She runs off of his name. CACs know that tenuous relationships must be maintained for the sake of long term wealth. Do you think they fukk ever? They probably haven't fukked since Monica incident. No one cares, Bill has his trollup hoes likely and Hilary gets her jollies from her power in offices. Everyone is "happy".

Meanwhile these young idealistic Women of color such as yourself won't be able to catch up to the lifestyle of these CAC feminists because you are too busy listening to what the dream is instead of watching what the reality of the lives they truly lead ACTUALLY ARE.

In some ways I feel sorry for Women like you, you were raised on Cinderella and that nikka Prince Charming. He doesn't exist. The reality is far more gruesome but your Daddy or whoever wasn't able to break the news to you.

Well - Don't say no one ever told you.

I tell my Woman every day - Just because I want to hit the buns of some other chick doesn't mean I'm interested in her long term. She says she doesn't want to share me - But she'll come around eventually (She's not American and deluded). The reality is I'm not interested in sharing an actual life with any other Women. Because the majority don't have the intelligence level to keep up with me or stimulate my mind. But they can serve as a good fukk and toss them back into the market afterwards because that's all many Women are worth in this country.

The ones who are worth more - Believe it, they won't have a problem remaining a comfortable lifestyle as the Main - But if their smart they will tolerate the side hoes as long as they remain unseen, discrete and on the fringes. I'm not saying nikkas should parade in the streets with them or spend time holding hands with the bytches.

So im entitled because I want my husband to leave instead of cheating on me because I don't want to deal with the pain, embarassment and stds an unfaithful husband brings? But if he wants to cheat it's perfectly fine. No problem there. Lmao men and the shyt y'all come up with you can be as horrible as a person can get but somehow IM the problem. The person that doesn't cheat and goes out of my way to make my spouse happy.

 

[Elle Driver]

He's not stupid

You put the fear of Allah in him huh

 

[Reginald Noble]

So im entitled because I want my husband to leave instead of cheating on me because I don't want to deal with the pain, embarassment and stds an unfaithful husband brings? But if he wants to cheat it's perfectly fine. No problem there. Lmao

Again, a Man simply having sex with another Woman isn't "cheating". At least in terms of the context of what I've discussed in my relationships.

I have done the responsible thing and have discussed with my Woman that the biological principles of a Man dictate he must spread the seed. Your Man perhaps he is one of the lucky ones that has sub-par Testosterone levels and therefore doesn't feel as much urge to fukk other Women.

Women don't understand there are degrees to this shyt. Nobody is saying be a nikka who is sloppy making pancakes for 20 year old whores in the morning and don't come back home until it's 12pm the following day when you are 50 and have a family. That's just stupid and reckless. Nobody saying spend $1 million on a bytch for a loft because she looks good to you. I wouldn't do that even if I had $1 Billion in assets.

"Cheating" is dependent on the relationship. Why is it Women always use extremes, embarrassment? STDs? Who the fukk is telling anyone? Unless the side bytch rings your phone what is the problem? Has your man heard of a condom? I mean I know they break sometimes but that's often the excuse the bytch uses when lying to trap him with a kid to swing to her side - Now if your Man is dumb enough to get caught up in that yeah you're gonna feel there is a problem obviously.

This is not the middle ages - nikkas can be smart about it. If you have a Man that is reckless and impregnates a 20 year old THOT that's certainly on him. Me personally I would be more buttoned up than that.

 

[Theraflu]

Again, a Man simply having sex with another Woman isn't "cheating". At least in terms of the context of what I've discussed in my relationships.

I have done the responsible thing and have discussed with my Woman that the biological principles of a Man dictate he must spread the seed. Your Man perhaps he is one of the lucky ones that has sub-par Testosterone levels and therefore doesn't feel as much urge to fukk other Women.

Women don't understand there are degrees to this shyt. Nobody is saying be a nikka who is sloppy making pancakes for 20 year old whores in the morning and don't come back home until it's 12pm the following day when you are 50 and have a family. That's just stupid and reckless. Nobody saying spend $1 million on a bytch for a loft because she looks good to you. I wouldn't do that even if I had $1 Billion in assets.

"Cheating" is dependent on the relationship. Why is it Women always use extremes, embarrassment? STDs? Who the fukk is telling anyone? Unless the side bytch rings your phone what is the problem? Has your man heard of a condom? I mean I know they break sometimes but that's often the excuse the bytch uses when lying to trap him with a kid to swing to her side - Now if your Man is dumb enough to get caught up in that yeah you're gonna feel there is a problem obviously.

This is not the middle ages - nikkas can be smart about it. If you have a Man that is reckless and impregnates a 20 year old THOT that's certainly on him. Me personally I would be more buttoned up than that.

would you count these scenarios i described where the men set up women in a different house as cheating? i do...

tbh if i was a woman my man fukking another woman be explained as 'just sex' but i think when a dude takes money out of the family home...thats 'cheating'

 

[Ashley Banks]

Again, a Man simply having sex with another Woman isn't "cheating". At least in terms of the context of what I've discussed in my relationships.

I have done the responsible thing and have discussed with my Woman that the biological principles of a Man dictate he must spread the seed. Your Man perhaps he is one of the lucky ones that has sub-par Testosterone levels and therefore doesn't feel as much urge to fukk other Women.

Women don't understand there are degrees to this shyt. Nobody is saying be a nikka who is sloppy making pancakes for 20 year old whores in the morning and don't come back home until it's 12pm the following day when you are 50 and have a family. That's just stupid and reckless. Nobody saying spend $1 million on a bytch for a loft because she looks good to you. I wouldn't do that even if I had $1 Billion in assets.

"Cheating" is dependent on the relationship. Why is it Women always use extremes, embarrassment? STDs? Who the fukk is telling anyone? Unless the side bytch rings your phone what is the problem? Has your man heard of a condom? I mean I know they break sometimes but that's often the excuse the bytch uses when lying to trap him with a kid to swing to her side - Now if your Man is dumb enough to get caught up in that yeah you're gonna feel there is a problem obviously.

This is not the middle ages - nikkas can be smart about it. If you have a Man that is reckless and impregnates a 20 year old THOT that's certainly on him. Me personally I would be more buttoned up than that.

Well that's YOUR relationship, not mine. If he kisses, goes on dates, has sex with (any kind of sex) another person that's cheating and im leaving. You're acting like stds are some rare occurrence when most people that get stds get them from an unfaithful partner.

And yes there's nothing embarrassing about being faithful to a man that doesn't give af about you and is constantly cheating on you every chance he gets and is constantly seen with different women. And having females laughing at you because they're fukking your husband and he's ignoring you for her while you're sitting at home playing the good wife. No thanks.

You want that life, leave me out of it. You want to fukk other people? Let me know so I can leave. So simple, no problems. Will I be heartbroken? Yes but that's my own problem to deal with and he obviously values sex over me so it's not like he would care.

And you can still get stds with a condom on.

 

[#SOG_soldier]

Spend money on side bytches
Brehs

 

[Colicat]

Just wanted to say that I am very happy to be here in a theraflu thread