Jhoon
Spontaneous Mishaps and Hijinks
Or women dont think theyre worthy of marrying.
What has changed in America where nobody can stay married?
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Rocket Scientist
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He's an idiot....I know a guy thats 25 and recently married a 20 year old for healthcare benefits, taxes, etc. They were only fukk buddies before.
Rocket Scientist
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Marriages one day are gonna include incentives and opt out clauses 
My parents have been married for 35+ years. Dated for 10 years.
I do not think folks understand marriage is work. Sometimes you have to put aside what YOU want for what the FAMILY or WE want. Plus, you have to have a plan, communication and everyday is not rainbows, love and romance movies. Trust and Respect are huge in a marriage, plus keeping your business about the marriage, within the marriage. Also it is not bad that everyone has their own television. Respect each other's personal space and don't restrict a person from doing what they love professionally and personality. You must be supportive of each other's goals and how they benefit the family has a whole.
My parents marriage is far from perfect, but these are the things I have learned from their marriage. Nothing is instant and nothing is self gratification
Also my father recently told me he decided when he HE was ready for marriage and before he married my mom he told her the things in a marriage he was not going to argue about and he has held on to those rules.
I do not think folks understand marriage is work. Sometimes you have to put aside what YOU want for what the FAMILY or WE want. Plus, you have to have a plan, communication and everyday is not rainbows, love and romance movies. Trust and Respect are huge in a marriage, plus keeping your business about the marriage, within the marriage. Also it is not bad that everyone has their own television. Respect each other's personal space and don't restrict a person from doing what they love professionally and personality. You must be supportive of each other's goals and how they benefit the family has a whole.
My parents marriage is far from perfect, but these are the things I have learned from their marriage. Nothing is instant and nothing is self gratification
Also my father recently told me he decided when he HE was ready for marriage and before he married my mom he told her the things in a marriage he was not going to argue about and he has held on to those rules.
Back in the day people stuck it out and eventually worked out their problems.
Divorce used to be taboo when our parents were kids.
Divorce used to be taboo when our parents were kids.
Jhoon
Spontaneous Mishaps and Hijinks
Why do you believe they "stuck it out" back then?
Folks want the benefits of the 21st century but all the disadvantages of the past too. No mention of the steep decline of people attending religious services?
All I know is when I get my mail order bride were going to be together for life
Jhoon
Spontaneous Mishaps and Hijinks
People insist on typing "people worked it out in the past'. But the idea/defintion of "work" needs to be changed. People dont work anymore. In my world, work is synonymous with a lower education and all the disadvantages that come with it.
Could be true for some but not always. Sometimes the most entitled are those with higher education.
options nikka
Elle Driver
Veteran
People leave cause they realize it's options out there for them and realize the societal pressure of marriage ain't worth it. It's more to marriage than trying to keep up with the joneses, it's a lot of work. And working on it just isn't as easy as walking away. 
BlvdBrawler
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Another question is, who really wants to spend their entire life with one person nowadays? I mean, really?
Jhoon
Spontaneous Mishaps and Hijinks
Whats wrong with feeling entitled? Why can't I be my own god?
Plenty of people.