What has changed in America where nobody can stay married?

[Jhoon]

People leave cause they realize it's options out there for them and realize the societal pressure of marriage ain't worth it. It's more to marriage than trying to keep up with the joneses, it's a lot of work. And working on it just isn't as easy as walking away.

Is there a medal for surviving obstacles? Are there tax breaks for going through adversities? What benefits are there for personal tribulations?

 

[Elle Driver]

Is there a medal for surviving obstacles? Are there tax breaks for going through adversities? What benefits are there for personal tribulations?

It's a part of life, regardless.

 

[Jhoon]

It's a part of life, regardless.

Should it?

 

[Jhoon]

Another question is, who really wants to spend their entire life with one person nowadays? I mean, really?

If someone brings your body extra dopamine everyday, why should you avoid that?

 

[Jone2three45]

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[Paisley Darts]

I think marriages aren't lasting because people are more superficial these days.

If the main reason you get married is because of looks and assets..you are bound to fail.

Chemistry is by far more important and is more likely stand the test of time over beauty and material things.

Also a lot of people equate sexual prowess to relationship chemistry. Chemistry is established outside of the bedroom.

 

[Jhoon]

Also a lot of people equate sexual prowess to relationship chemistry. Chemistry is established outside of the bedroom.

marriage is life. Marriage is like fine engineering - a machine created to make our existence easier. If you're married and youre stressed, theres a cog in your machine. This is when you look at your blueprint and figure out where the problem is located.

 

[King Poetic]

my close friends i knew from college 4 of them been married for more than 10 years and the other one just got married and me and the other 4 are just working making money and living lief like it's our last days.

honestly i don't care about anybody else life that's up to them, i just got to worry about my own back yard

 

[AITheAnswerAI]

You need to get over the "act like a man" spiel. There's no such thing as feminine snd masculine. When you understand that concept, this thread should be revealed as goofy and stupid.

Did you grow up without a father?

 

[Jhoon]

Did you grow up without a father?

Youre proof you can mature without a brain.

I had a mother and a father. Even had uncles and cousins. And I wouldn't be afraid to tell em to their face that their entire existence was bullshyt. Just the other day my aunt came up to me talking that baptism stuff. Had to remind her that her son is baptized and hes been to prison. The only family member that has been to jail.

Im not in the business of continuing usless social norms.

 

[MikelArteta]

Another question is, who really wants to spend their entire life with one person nowadays? I mean, really?

when you think of all your past relationships can you imagine if you married any of your exes?

 

[BlvdBrawler]

If someone brings your body extra dopamine everyday, why should you avoid that?

Something...something addiction metaphor I guess?

 

[BlvdBrawler]

when you think of all your past relationships can you imagine if you married any of your exes?

There's maybe 2 that wouldn't have been awful.

But they weren't my equals.

Come to think of it, I've never really dated an equal before.

Maybe I'm fukking up.

shyt, maybe it's me.

 

[AITheAnswerAI]

Youre proof you can mature without a brain.

That's a yes then, you don't know what masculinity is because you were raised by women and you're moist as hell.

 

[Cynic]

Because women don't need men for financial security anymore and have the state to back them in destroying male identity....

Don't believe me ? Look at the percentage for who initiates most divorces (Women) and the suicide rates of men post divorce


Get married to Western women brehs :usherlol: