What Does It Mean To “Protect” Women?

[MaxPain]

Right on time

 

[Cel 510 kid ados forever]

Hmmm it's a general feeling of being safe you get from being around the men that look like you and share the same experiences as you.

Only on the internet do I encounter blk dudes talking about hesitating when others in their community are being targeted. There are some instances where I would feel obligated to assist somebody and I'm a female. If we want to be real this is less about gender and more about heart.

You either got it or you don't. If I see an evil racist terrorizing an elder, I'm don't know them but they are from my community. My lil wack ass taser coming out along with my pepper spray and a brick if I can find one. I'm calling the cops and crying and acting just as traumatized as I can. Yelling, screaming...making the biggest scene ever. I'm doing all I can to stop it. Same if that happens to a man or woman or a child.

The excuse of "I don't know them" is really just a smokescreen for deeper gender frustrations people feeling but like most things, I doubt we tryin to be that real tonight. Or maybe I'm wrong. That's just my thoughts on the matter.

Edit: Then again I hail from a long line of unhinged people. I'm the daughter of a man who heard our neighbor's house being broken into, and ran out the door in his tighty, whitey drawers yellin "FREEZE!!!!"
Or my grandmother who smushed a white bytches face so hard in a "whites only" water fountain that she broke the hoe nose and broke a blood vessel in her eye. I never knew why my grandmother lived in Pennsylvania for so long. I dunno, country folks be getting outta formation with a quickness. Certain shyt just ain't gonna go down.

U can get killed trying to play capt save a chick to someone u dont know.

Ill do it if her life in danger.

But over a fight with a bf or something naw it got to be something real

 

[Indiglow Meta (R$G)]

Ive seen other races of men watch their women get attacked with my own two eyes too many times to count

U think these MGTOW woman hating white boys are gonna rush in to the rescue?

Yall give them way too much credit

Cacs will buck at the cops that attempt intervention as well. Common. New Hampshire.


West Virginia.

 

[MaxPain]

@Hennessypapi u my guy, and u hella smart, but how canyou believe in gendwr roles if you dont know what it means to "protect" our women? Providing protection, and stability is one of the main tenets of a man's role in gender

Because the lines are blurred in America.

And im not sure if they mean random women, or women in my family/wife. Cuz im not doing shyt for random women except the elderly, sorry.

 

[Indiglow Meta (R$G)]

here's another example of cacs bodying police that tried to keep them from beating/raping their wives

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

I understand where you coming from sis. Like if I see a chick in a SERIOUS confrontation in public, I'll step in and regulate. But my thing is, that RARELY ever happens, and when it does, I see a black dude fix the issue. Black men are accused of not protecting anything, but I'm trying to see a daily situation in which there is a need for me to do so

I gotta ask you and others: who are these women?

If we are talking about Twitter, you can't really take a few random thoughts of people offline. As I said, I've only encountered this mentality online. I grew up in an all blk community, poor working middle class and I never felt anything less than safe and protected. That experience colored my view of blk men growing up as I feel safer around them than near any other race of men. I grew up around blk people not just men, who just weren't gonna tolerate certain shyt or you some trash and gotta get the hell out of our community. If chicks was getting beaten in my neighborhood, it must have happened in the privacy of their own homes. Because nobody was screaming and sobbing in the street as blow after blow loosened teeth or cracked females' jaws while able bodied blk men or hell even women pretended not to hear.

I've seen old ass women stop fights between grown men and not flinch.


So when I hear blk dudes online talking like this...I dunno. This probably another one of those things I can't relate to b/c I didn't grow up like that.

 

[MMA]

esp when I hear a BW say it. “bm dont protect us”

Is it just the men in her life? Or should I protect random women?

Protect her from what exactly? Herself? Lol

Excuse my ignorance. Im legit confused

I want an answer preferably from a brehette

This! Once you understand that, you'll understand what's it is woman expect from man.

We are both raised so differently. We has black man expect what is coming, our woman often don't

So it's our job to protect them from these situations or potential situations

 

[Kinguno]

It means to be a pawn in a game that does not and will not matter

 

[Nintendough]

Make her feel loved

Kiss her forehead

Beat up anybody that is mean to her

 

[Indiglow Meta (R$G)]

Protect like how? The unarmed brotha who disarmed the psychocac at the Waffle House?

 

[MaxPain]

Woman punched after calling out 'manspreading' now getting death threats


White female feminist attacked by black man on subway for minutes until a latino man intervened

Comments fulla white boys applauding the black man on Youtube:

“You just hit a lady bro” what a cuck


Another feminist cover up?

Well hope she learned her lesson....oops forgot she’s female


I think this is much deeper on the surface. I feel like a part of it is this generation of men are more feminized and “soft”; but the other part is women fought so hard for equality/hold feminist ideals alot of American men of all races dont see women as victims. They are apathetic to them.Double whammy if ur a black woman who are already devalued.

If u try that in a foreigner community u will get ran up on though.

 

[Memorial Stadium Piru]

I gotta ask you and others: who are these women?

If we are talking about Twitter, you can't really take a few random thoughts of people offline. As I said, I've only encountered this mentality online. I grew up in an all blk community, poor working middle class and I never felt anything less than safe and protected. That experience colored my view of blk men growing up as I feel safer around them than near any other race of men. I grew up around blk people not just men, who just weren't gonna tolerate certain shyt or you some trash and gotta get the hell out of our community. If chicks was getting beaten in my neighborhood, it must have happened in the privacy of their own homes. Because nobody was screaming and sobbing in the street as blow after blow loosened teeth or cracked females' jaws while able bodied blk men or hell even women pretended not to hear.

I've seen old ass women stop fights between grown men and not flinch.


So when I hear blk dudes online talking like this...I dunno. This probably another one of those things I can't relate to b/c I didn't grow up like that.

Yeah then, I'm convinced that it's just the Internet. When situations arise in real life I've seen black men jump to the rescue in 3 secs flat. But on the Internet, BW claim we don't protect, yet I can't really name too many instances where protection was needed, and when it was a black dude was always there

 

[7th Letter Specialist]

Because the lines are blurred in America.

And im not sure if they mean random women, or women in my family/wife. Cuz im not doing shyt for random women except the elderly, sorry.

I feel u. But I think the definition is different for everyone. Like me as far as my woman goes this how I protect her:
-physically: if nikkas tryna get on her head or run the fade, im on they shyt
-financially: I make sure I keep enough in the rainy day fund for both of us (she dont know tho) and I try to game her on finances and show her how to stack and invest
-mentally: I give her game (street/legal,office etc.) Plus I try to out her onto new shyt.
-emotionally: just be a shoulder for hwr to cry on, and help reibforce her self esteem when she needs it.

Plus I slapbox w/ my women sometimes to keep they hands on point (no face tho I cant mess up a pretty face.

Idk if that helps, plus my tips are for sane women

 

[7th Letter Specialist]

Protect like how? The unarmed brotha who disarmed the psychocac at the Waffle House?

hell yea, just rush @ nikkas holding AKs. We Luke Cage outchea

 

[UWasntThere]

I beleive in gender roles but im not protecting random women lol

I dont even know what im protecting from when I hear women say this. What do u need protection from?

#KTYS