What do you guys think about a woman having guy friends and a man having female friends while in a relationship?

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Why :dahell: is he dry humping the mat?
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I'll say this.. If I'm your girls male friend 95 percent chance I've fukked or been in her mouth. The 5% is I either don't find her attractive but she's funny or I just haven't took it there. I've had more female friends one day offer me ass or throat then I can count..
 

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Its fine, but at the same time, A woman (or man) that has respect for their partner, will also be aware of optics and how that can affect the social standing of their partner,

Even an honest innocent friendship with the opposite sex, can potentially have a negative impact on a romantic relationship.
Up to you to determine which relationship takes precedence for you, because you may need to sacrifice one to secure the other.
I wouldn't subject my lady to whispers and gossip everytime she steps out the house, just because i want to hang out with my friends. Seems kinda childish imo. Unless we not all that seriously committed to each other.
I get it but I don't know I just never been put in that type of situation so it's hard to understand how someone can leave a good friend behind for a relationship that may or may not last.

I could understand if they were married but they just started getting serious in about two weeks.
 

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I get it but I don't know I just never been put in that type of situation so it's hard to understand how someone can leave a good friend behind for a relationship that may or may not last.

I could understand if they were married but they just started getting serious in about two weeks.

She will probably circle back when

A) her relationship gets more solid

B) her relationship gets less solid

give her the space
 

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So, long story short, there's this woman I've had for about two months. We used to talk and text pretty much every day, from early morning till bedtime. A few weeks ago, y'know, she started going on dates with this guy, and recently, about a week ago, it got serious. Congrats to her, but since then...

stopped right there.

nah bro this entire mindstate is guaranteed, repeated Ls. unfukk yourself immediately.

"this woman i've had" you ain't got shyt :dead: the fukk
If dude was trying to smash, he blew it. Should have let his intentions be known in the first 2 weeks, let alone 2 months.

If he really just wanted a friend, women can be flaky and when they get a man it is usually a wrap or at the very least contact will diminish. Is what it is. Nowadays men are flaky too cuz many men are thirsty and got scarcity mentality so even your boys might fade a lil when they enter a serious relationship. If you really homies you can not see each other for years and still kick it like old times when you run into each other or she divorces him and bro needs a place to stay :lolbron:
 

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Well, initially she hit me up in September, with the intention of us hooking up but around the beginning of October we had a falling out because y'know I'm more of the exclusive type when it comes to dating, where she was open to going on dates with other dudes until she found the right one.

Also, we had some arguments because of that but also she felt I wasn't returning the energy when she wanted to see me. I kept delaying due to work but also other reasons; I just wanted to take my time.

So after that, we stopped talking for nearly two weeks. We blocked each other on Facebook at the time, but then around the 3rd week of October, she called me, and we rekindled, but only as friends due to what happened before, and I was cool with that.

Put yourself in the friendzone and be happy with it, brehs.
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I'll say this.. If I'm your girls male friend 95 percent chance I've fukked or been in her mouth. The 5% is I either don't find her attractive but she's funny or I just haven't took it there. I've had more female friends one day offer me ass or throat then I can count..
Well we started out talking with the intentions of dating but it didn't go there due to miscues and misunderstandings on my end but hers as well.
 
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