Weak black men, afraid to check each other.

[Blah1991]

It is because it is based on an incorrect premise. And for the record @The Indian... is white despite what his screen name says.

Same for @GiGi and @Blah1991 who may not necessarily be white but aren't black women.

What's with you? Seriously?

 

[Diddly Drogba]

Again, you don't want to play the crime game darling. Black men are the reigning champions.

but who raised those black men? black single mothers.

 

[mrken12]

What's with you? Seriously?

Nothing. What's with you person who is not a black woman?

 

[Kenny West]

Black men are checking other black men all of the time. Some of you black women(assuming that's what you are) truly in an alternate universe. It's black women who never ever ever check themselves. Pandering to black women telling them what they want to hear is a billion dollar industry. Black women simply don't like to be criticized or challenges in any way. This street harassment bullshyt is a perfect example.

Black men aren't dismissing the notion that some women are harassed on the street. Black men are challenging the motive of this movement and the attempt to criminalize something that's arbitrary. It's not like black feminists came to black men on some "we got some family issues that we need to deal with" type shyt. Nah black feminists came out on a "this is reason number 1million and one why black men ain't shyt" all while trying to use the system of white supremacy to criminalize vague behavior. It's not clear what exactly constitutes street harassment. What one woman considers street harassment the next woman might consider good game. It could even depend on who the guy is. A woman might be flattered by one guy approaching her on the street and feel harassed by the next man approaching in the same manner. YouTube is full of videos of women responding positively to being approached on the street(I only yous YT as an example because we can all verify it. I've seen countless examples of this is real life). You women aren't even being honest about the legit challenges that have been made of the movement because you're too busy crying trying to play the victim. Stop it.

Real talk I was trying to keep myself from making a real post and end up saying the bolded and shutting this thread down but since it got bumped enough (and not sent to the race track with all the flamebait in the OP oddly enough ) someone else got to it.

The premise of this thread is so silly tho. We're supposed to check nikkas for catcalling? You want random males to insert themselves into situations with strangers over women they don't know? That they can't even try to get with her afterward because it would be street harassment too

And checking deadbeat dads...the nerve of this chick to put that on there. they are publicly shamed already (hence the term deadbeat dad, but no term for thot moms) but even if they weren't you realize they wouldn't stop their lifestyle because they're still getting p*ssy

The truth is related to the bolded tho. Whenever there is any type of gender politics discussion all women want to do is just say "WHAT ABOUT THE MEN, WHAT ABOUT THE MEN, WHAT ABOUT THE MEN". This thread is just OP reading some posts and make one big "BUT WHAT ABOUT THE MEN" post. No, men aren't blameless, NOBODY has ever claimed that. Nobody could claim that, because society checks men hard. And black men most of all are prosecuted to the fullest extent of he law. Even the deadbeats you mention can have their financial and literal independence stripped as a result of his actions. Did I really have to type that for adult eyes?

However the problem is this: There is no cooperation from women, and it is WRONG to expect any. The one (pretty much only) responsibility women have is mate selection. Under the old rules mate selection was handled by the parents or family and they had a majority say and they would choose the mates and give blessings to responsible provider males. Maybe the ancients understood how harmful unchecked hypergamy would be for a community. Dudes who identify with old order masculinity will see themselves as unquestioned leaders of family unit. But according to modern female ideology this is degrading. (but BW only feel this way with Black men) However women do like the males taking on the responsiblity (and blame) of the relationship, and males accepted it.

Now women are free to choose who they want to mate and they do so based on feeling rather than the logical judgement of family. The inner city communities full of single mothers and baby boys are the result of this. Strong black men don't live in the hood, they find a submissive woman to build with and start a family. (shoutout @Crakface ) Once black leadership was destroyed (MLK) and mate selection became unhinged,all racist government had to do was give some passive pushes (crack, destructive media) and watch the black nuclear divide. The thugs, drug dealers and deadbeats/players are enabled in our community because they are rewarded with sex. The responsible ones are with people reassuring him he's "doing the right thing" in spite of his unhappiness.

the only way to bring back the nuclear black family would be a change in mate selection, because aint shyt nikkas seem to be far more successful at finding women to trip and fall on their dikks and procreating as a result. Considering 2014's heart throb of the year is the convict dude I don't see much changing. Which brings us back to the bold. Women go the most unchecked. And unfortunately for black folks the media actually enables and encourages fukkery from us. Gives us platforms to disparage our race, encourages ratchetness, and co-signs degeneracy.

Prime example, this song



shyt is the prime example of the bolded quote and the weak men that have resulted in it. The songs about co-signing our women to be fukkin strippers. "I ain't judging you, go and get your money" pretty much the opposite end of the spectrum as far as checking


@mrken12 @Matt504 @Data-Hawk

i know this post will get looked over but I want some intellingent eyes to see it

 

[philmonroe]

didnt read thread, but...

...
Ill just say, dont take people who post on internet msg boards/twitter too serious.
People who critique everything arent taking action themselves.
I have to check myself sometimes w/ posting on places like this...it accomplishes nothing, I should be using that time working on myself.

Its much easier to talk about what others are/arent doing, than to take action in your own life.

Doers do, talkers talk.

This all day

 

[labrokejames]

You guys like to blame everything wrong in our community on the women. As soon as a thread like this is made yall get upset. Is it ochie wally wally or is it one mic?

FALSE


Black men clown on other black men just as much if not MORE than they do women. You just hearing what you wanna hear.

 

[Gravity]

Personally I consider street harassment to be unwanted, sexually degrading, verbal or physical contact with an individual. I've had a man spit in my face because I didn't want to give him my number.
And yes, I would oppose any new legislation since such laws exist already,

I agree. Hopefully the cat who you say spit in your face got his ass whipped. That's assault under the law actually. The confusion comes in the vagueness of what street harassment actually is. I think that reasonable black men and women agree that men approaching women in public aggressively and verbally assaulting those who aren't responsive is wrong and shouldn't be condoned by our community. The problem is that street harassment can be something as little as looking at a women according to some. Looking, speaking, or even politely approaching a woman publicly shouldn't be be painted as harassing.

 

[Blah1991]

but who raised those black men? black single mothers.

Yes because their fathers refuse to do their part. Does that concern you or no? Your blaming black male abuse on black women ??!

 

[Blah1991]

I agree. Hopefully the cat who you say spit in your face got his ass whipped. That's assault under the law actually. The confusion comes in the vagueness of what street harassment actually is. I think that reasonable black men and women agree that men approaching women in public aggressively and verbally assaulting those who aren't responsive is wrong and shouldn't be condoned by our community. The problem is that street harassment can be something as little as looking at a women according to some. Looking, speaking, or even politely approaching a woman publicly shouldn't be be painted as harassing.

I agree with your response 100%. Thank you for your reasonable statement. Guys rare around here.

 

[Blah1991]

Nothing. What's with you person who is not a black woman?

Shut the fukk up a$$hole. The easiest cop out on this site is to accuse someone of being white because it don't let you berate black women with impunity.

 

[Busted_Toes]

I see Black men on here go at each other all the time. I've never seen on this forum two Black females check each other. Never.



























Never.

 

[marcuz]

Yes because their fathers refuse to do their part. Does that concern you or no? Your blaming black male abuse on black women ??!

if BW knew how to appropriately pick and vet suitors, they'd have men that would "do their part"


but hey, keep fukking drop outs, dudes covered in tats, men w/multiple baby mommas. long as they know how to hit it right, y'all are content

 

[Gains]

. But every time I talk to my daddy, ...

 

[Colicat]

... I definitely didn't think about how that sounds out of context... Thanx for the laugh

 

[mamba]

Real talk I was trying to keep myself from making a real post and end up saying the bolded and shutting this thread down but since it got bumped enough (and not sent to the race track with all the flamebait in the OP oddly enough ) someone else got to it.

The premise of this thread is so silly tho. We're supposed to check nikkas for catcalling? You want random males to insert themselves into situations with strangers over women they don't know? That they can't even try to get with her afterward because it would be street harassment too

And checking deadbeat dads...the nerve of this chick to put that on there. they are publicly shamed already (hence the term deadbeat dad, but no term for thot moms) but even if they weren't you realize they wouldn't stop their lifestyle because they're still getting p*ssy

The truth is related to the bolded tho. Whenever there is any type of gender politics discussion all women want to do is just say "WHAT ABOUT THE MEN, WHAT ABOUT THE MEN, WHAT ABOUT THE MEN". This thread is just OP reading some posts and make one big "BUT WHAT ABOUT THE MEN" post. No, men aren't blameless, NOBODY has ever claimed that. Nobody could claim that, because society checks men hard. And black men most of all are prosecuted to the fullest extent of he law. Even the deadbeats you mention can have their financial and literal independence stripped as a result of his actions. Did I really have to type that for adult eyes?

However the problem is this: There is no cooperation from women, and it is WRONG to expect any. The one (pretty much only) responsibility women have is mate selection. Under the old rules mate selection was handled by the parents or family and they had a majority say and they would choose the mates and give blessings to responsible provider males. Maybe the ancients understood how harmful unchecked hypergamy would be for a community. Dudes who identify with old order masculinity will see themselves as unquestioned leaders of family unit. But according to modern female ideology this is degrading. (but BW only feel this way with Black men) However women do like the males taking on the responsiblity (and blame) of the relationship, and males accepted it.

Now women are free to choose who they want to mate and they do so based on feeling rather than the logical judgement of family. The inner city communities full of single mothers and baby boys are the result of this. Strong black men don't live in the hood, they find a submissive woman to build with and start a family. (shoutout @Crakface ) Once black leadership was destroyed (MLK) and mate selection became unhinged,all racist government had to do was give some passive pushes (crack, destructive media) and watch the black nuclear divide. The thugs, drug dealers and deadbeats/players are enabled in our community because they are rewarded with sex. The responsible ones are with people reassuring him he's "doing the right thing" in spite of his unhappiness.

the only way to bring back the nuclear black family would be a change in mate selection, because aint shyt nikkas seem to be far more successful at finding women to trip and fall on their dikks and procreating as a result. Considering 2014's heart throb of the year is the convict dude I don't see much changing. Which brings us back to the bold. Women go the most unchecked. And unfortunately for black folks the media actually enables and encourages fukkery from us. Gives us platforms to disparage our race, encourages ratchetness, and co-signs degeneracy.

Prime example, this song



shyt is the prime example of the bolded quote and the weak men that have resulted in it. The songs about co-signing our women to be fukkin strippers. "I ain't judging you, go and get your money" pretty much the opposite end of the spectrum as far as checking


@mrken12 @Matt504 @Data-Hawk

i know this post will get looked over but I want some intellingent eyes to see it

Breh, this is Grade-A posting right here.

@kevm3 , get in here and bless us, breh.