Weak black men, afraid to check each other.

[Diddly Drogba]

So what role do black men play, if any at all? You have a lot of shyt to say about black women but nothing about black men.

why are black women robbing 8 yo girls? Go talk to her

http://www.nydailynews.com/news/cri...g-candy-san-francisco-store-article-1.1868748

 

[newworldafro]

This is not so cut and dry because the of the various"approaches" and "intentions' behind "checking" someone.

Some folks will want to "check" you because they genuinely care about your welfare, just as a brother, and sense you are doing something inappropriate or steering off the path to a better life. They'll try to "check" you and it sounds preachy, but that typically means they care.

Some folks will check you because, they also see you steering off the wrong path, but will make a joke out of it, and it comes across as crass, hating, uppity. Its difficult to tell if they genuinely care about your welfare, or if they are just................. swagging on you. Here it may be difficult to say, or person may not be mature enough to distinguish, if someone is hating on them or really trying to offer constructive criticism because of the delivery of the message.

....


Simple example:

Talib Kweli "Checking" you: lyrics that are uplifting

Lil Wayne "Checking" you: lyrics that down grade your lifestyle

Now both may be methods of trying to harvest the best out of you, but they are different approaches.

 

[philmonroe]

I only care about me and my family. You are correct.

but you let me know what you're doing to change things because chances are, you're doing nothing except typing on the internet. The difference is I'm not going to pretend. Lying helps no one. There are true community activists out there who are putting blood sweat and tears into their communities tho. You're not one of them however.

They do nothing but front on the nets like they leading a revolution but on here all the time. I don't know any revolutionist that are on Internet messageboards all the time. I also think speaking on the issue makes people feel like they did something even though they ain't did shyt esp on here where like minded talkers can bounce the same ideals off each others heads over and over again.

Why is the internet the only place I see this great divide. I log off and walk outside and see black people dating one another and falling in love with one another .

Exactly but the real reason is most of the big complainers online its just not popping for them IRL so what else do they have but to come on here and do what they do. What you say about blacks dating wise is all I see with the occasional IR sprinkled in but how its talked about on here these cats act like 90% IR dating (not that I would care) which isn't no where close to reality.

Speaking the truth..

I thought the militants on here just hated white people.. Now i see they hate black females also..

Some just hate women because they can't get them similar to that Elliott Rodgers clown and white people cause they deep down think they are better than them.

 

[Axum Ezana]

well I do plenty, but you get tired when women wont choose a good man. they keep choosing to sleep with these so called "flawed men".


why should I call them out when you love them the way they are? that's crazy.


now if u going for different type of brother then ill say something, but im not going to fight or simp for you constantly then you turn around and go back to the same man or worse.

 

[Data-Hawk]

They do nothing but front on the nets like they leading a revolution but on here all the time. I don't know any revolutionist that are on Internet messageboards all the time. I also think speaking on the issue makes people feel like they did something even though they ain't did shyt esp on here where like minded talkers can bounce the same ideals off each others heads over and over again.

Exactly but the real reason is most of the big complainers online its just not popping for them IRL so what else do they have but to come on here and do what they do. What you say about blacks dating wise is all I see with the occasional IR sprinkled in but how its talked about on here these cats act like 90% IR dating (not that I would care) which isn't no where close to reality.

Some just hate women because they can't get them similar to that Elliott Rodgers clown and white people cause they deep down think they are better than them.

Breh, Some of these dudes be browsing other messageboards and say they are keeping an eye on the enemy. Lol. fukking keyboard warriors I swear, probably turned their basement into a bomb shelter and watch Rambo every night waiting for a race war to pop off.


Say you care about our community, but spent all your time worrying about theirs.



Also I think some of them are mad they werent born white.. Seriously why else would you spend every waking momeng of your life on them? How do some of these dudes have 15K+ posts and 99% of them are talking about white ppl.. These nikkas have nothing else going on in their life? I hate to break it to them. but they arent helping Anybody by making the same threads over and over.


Only breh I really respect on here when it comes to racial issues is @kp404 He can actually back up what he says and dedicating his life to making things better.Theres others but most of them on here I think have mental problems.

 

[HellRell804]

So what role do black men play, if any at all? You have a lot of shyt to say about black women but nothing about black men.

Like I said this generation is done. A lost cause. To the ones like myself who take care of our sons (single dad BTW with custody) raise your boys right and try to stop this trend of feminized man children.

 

[philmonroe]

Breh, Some of these dudes be browsing other messageboards and say they are keeping an eye on the enemy. Lol. fukking keyboard warriors I swear, probably turned their basement into a bomb shelter and watch Rambo every night waiting for a race war to pop off.


Say you care about our community, but spent all your time worrying about theirs.



Also I think some of them are mad they werent born white.. Seriously why else would you spend every waking momeng of your life on them? How do some of these dudes have 15K+ posts and 99% of them are talking about white ppl.. These nikkas have nothing else going on in their life? I hate to break it to them. but they arent helping Anybody by making the same threads over and over.


Only breh I really respect on here when it comes to racial issues is @kp404 He can actually back up what he says and dedicating his life to making things better.Theres others but most of them on here I think have mental problems.

Definitely that's what I don't understand you come at these dudes they only retort is to play c00n train and somehow that is helping the black community rid itself of problems by playing a song or negging somebody. Some might be crazy but most honestly really wanna do the shyt they talk about so they come here and front about it with other fronters and life is made to feel,better. Jay said it awhile back you can't help the poor if you one of the, but dudes rather talk and talk and talk about the problems so they never have to confront them. Then when you ask about that its always you can do both at the same time which is true but I wasn't born yesterday. Majority of people that are successful in any endeavor focus mp the majority of their energy on that goal not going off in every direction.

 

[CrossBones]

@Easy-E

nobody said you have to feel "sorry" for any guy. thats a very blatant lie that you pulled out of nowhere. show me the post which exonerated, and asked anybody to feel sorry for the guy

Ill wait.

as a matter of fact, since you unnecessarily tagged me in here, I'll mention how I was the one who made a post about him being a fukkboy, and how he made missteps. plenty of people agreed with me in that in the thread, even you, which continues to make your entire point have no legs.

finally, the outstanding effort you make to excuse that woman from her "immature" behavior in order to demonize men is a joke. that right there really is simp shyt. you wont get anywhere and make progress unless youre willing to be honest about the whole thing.

 

[Killer Instinct]

Why is the internet the only place I see this great divide. I log off and walk outside and see black people dating one another and falling in love with one another .

Those less fortunate log online to vent when they could simply hit the gym or tweak their personality.

 

[Killer Instinct]

And I really would love to see some of the females pictures on here that routinely complain about finding suitable black men. If it was a mandatory requirement before you were allowed to complain about black women passing you over for thugs or black men jumping over you for white women, a good portion of people who frequent these threads would be ghost.

 

[The Indian...]

I said in previous topics women where racist and colorstruck towards Black Men.... I was called a loser and a troll... this entire 'Street Harassment' gig is aimed at Dark Skin Black Men.

If blue eye'd Jeremy Meeks or Michael Ealy Type's or any random white guy where to holler at these black women, they'd wouldn't have a problem.

Basically a Black Man who isn't a mullato is pretty much considered a rapist by these women, no matter how respectful he is... that one chick even had problems with guys saying 'Hi' to her.

Ironically these same black feminists will still use the color-ism trope and the unwed statistics against black men, but whenver black men do approach them they get accused of harassment HAHAHA.

These women simply have issue with black men hitting on them point blank.

It's not the message but the messenger.

 

[HellRell804]

As for the dumbass position that we need to "check" other men... for what? Deadbeat dads aren't buying themselves deadbeat dad cards on father's day. To paraphrase Chris rock "men buy nice houses and drive nice cars because women like them."

It takes hard work and money for those things. So what can I honestly say about a dude that shortcutted the system.

We men already look at them as losers but if a loser can still get his nut off with multiple women why would he stop. Personal pride? Lol pride and shame died in the early 2000s for the most part

 

[Will Ross]

EDIT: Disclaimer: I only read the first 50 posts.

@JayZsBlackEye Sounds like the back-n-forth I had @CrossBones in that "Ways to Deal With Women" megathread (that's prolly only upped because of @Emperor_ReinScarf).

A woman posts (I'm not sure it was real) a pic, on social media, clowning a guy. Apparently; he drove 17 hours for sex and she rebuffed him, took a "selfie" with him and posted it on line.

Now, that was immature behavior by the woman. But, I was expected to feel sorry for a grown man who made a horrible investment. That didn't bother me, the most, but; the elaborate dissertation exonerating the man of any responsibility did. Because, she clowned him (on the back end of the 17 hours trip, mind you), he was made a victim. And I was called a simp because I only took time to get on the man.

If we want to be leaders, we have to take the most responsibility. Barack Obama ain't sayin'; Why all on me so much!? What about Cris Christy?!

It's because Obama is the President if the country and Christy is a Governor of a state.

I'm tired of hearing this "WOMEN NEED TO LET US LEAD," but, EVERY thread makin' black men seem as anything but victims or heroes is met with "NEG" "One Star."

I will say this @JayZsBlackEye ; thecoli does get on black men who shuck and jive. I'll give the guys that.

But, in issues revolving around Black Men and Women; 90% of the time the women are made out to be at fault and ultimately made to shoulder the most responsibility.

I don't know HOW MANY TIMES I've read "Birth Control is the woman's responsibility" on this forum and SOHH.

I agree with you, but, it's mostly when it comes to relationship/domestic issues that thecoli cuddles black men too much.


So, you'll step to a woman--in condemnation--but, not a man? Noted.

Turning a more cricital eye on the behavior of men, in our community, is simp behavior? Noted.

Who are yoin

EDIT: Disclaimer: I only read the first 50 posts.

@JayZsBlackEye Sounds like the back-n-forth I had @CrossBones in that "Ways to Deal With Women" megathread (that's prolly only upped because of @Emperor_ReinScarf).

A woman posts (I'm not sure it was real) a pic, on social media, clowning a guy. Apparently; he drove 17 hours for sex and she rebuffed him, took a "selfie" with him and posted it on line.

Now, that was immature behavior by the woman. But, I was expected to feel sorry for a grown man who made a horrible investment. That didn't bother me, the most, but; the elaborate dissertation exonerating the man of any responsibility did. Because, she clowned him (on the back end of the 17 hours trip, mind you), he was made a victim. And I was called a simp because I only took time to get on the man.

If we want to be leaders, we have to take the most responsibility. Barack Obama ain't sayin'; Why all on me so much!? What about Cris Christy?!

It's because Obama is the President if the country and Christy is a Governor of a state.

I'm tired of hearing this "WOMEN NEED TO LET US LEAD," but, EVERY thread makin' black men seem as anything but victims or heroes is met with "NEG" "One Star."

I will say this @JayZsBlackEye ; thecoli does get on black men who shuck and jive. I'll give the guys that.

But, in issues revolving around Black Men and Women; 90% of the time the women are made out to be at fault and ultimately made to shoulder the most responsibility.

I don't know HOW MANY TIMES I've read "Birth Control is the woman's responsibility" on this forum and SOHH.

I agree with you, but, it's mostly when it comes to relationship/domestic issues that thecoli cuddles black men too much.


So, you'll step to a woman--in condemnation--but, not a man? Noted.

Turning a more cricital eye on the behavior of men, in our community, is simp behavior? Noted.

How can you make a grown man be a father to his kids?
How can you make a grown man stop beating on a woman?
How can you make a grown man have pride in building his own.

 

[philmonroe]

And I really would love to see some of the females pictures on here that routinely complain about finding suitable black men. If it was a mandatory requirement before you were allowed to complain about black women passing you over for thugs or black men jumping over you for white women, a good portion of people who frequent these threads would be ghost.

If I could rep you I would I don't know who most of these cats fooling talking about show your faces like that wouldn't shed light on alot of males/females dating "problems" lol

 

[Ninjaz In Paris]

Humans...