EDIT: Disclaimer: I only read the first 50 posts.
@JayZsBlackEye Sounds like the back-n-forth I had
@CrossBones in that "Ways to Deal With Women" megathread (that's prolly only upped because of
@Emperor_ReinScarf).
A woman posts (I'm not sure it was real) a pic, on social media, clowning a guy. Apparently; he drove 17 hours for sex and she rebuffed him, took a "selfie" with him and posted it on line.
Now, that was immature behavior by the woman. But, I was expected to feel sorry for a grown man who made a horrible investment. That didn't bother me, the most, but; the elaborate dissertation exonerating the man of any responsibility did. Because, she clowned him (on the back end of the 17 hours trip, mind you), he was made a victim. And I was called a simp because I only took time to get on the man.
If we want to be leaders, we have to take the most responsibility. Barack Obama ain't sayin';
Why all on me so much!? What about Cris Christy?!
It's because Obama is the President if the country and Christy is a Governor of a state.
I'm tired of hearing this "WOMEN NEED TO LET US LEAD," but, EVERY thread makin' black men seem as anything but victims or heroes is met with "NEG" "One Star."
I will say this
@JayZsBlackEye ; thecoli does get on black men who shuck and jive. I'll give the guys that.
But, in issues revolving around Black Men and Women; 90% of the time the women are made out to be at fault and ultimately made to shoulder the most responsibility.
I don't know HOW MANY TIMES I've read "Birth Control is the woman's responsibility"
on this forum and SOHH.
I agree with you, but, it's mostly when it comes to relationship/domestic issues that thecoli cuddles black men too much.
@61 Corpses
So, you'll step to a woman--in condemnation--but, not a man? Noted.
Turning a more cricital eye on the behavior of men, in our community, is simp behavior? Noted.