Wack 100 Explains Perfectly And Logically Why Men Shouldn't Get Married. Why Do People Get Mad At Men For Making Sense?

[StretfordRed]

I'll say it every time this topic comes up but I really wish y'all would make up your minds.

Y'all are against marriage
but if a woman isn't married by 30 then something's wrong with her
but if she marries a cac she's a bedwench
and if she has a kid she's damaged goods
But you're AGAINST marriage...

Also add:

"Women don't like sex"

It's a joke. If some of these threads are a representation of how you man are moving in real life, it's no wonder you lot are against marriage lol

 

[IsThatBrothaMouzone?]

Marriage is wrong.....until you find the right woman.

If you haven't found a woman worth marrying, either you don't really WANT to be married deep down....or your choosing radar is fukked and you just can't pick the right ones. Common denominator and shyt.

Like if you can easily do the Heisman on every woman you fukks with, that means you aren't interested in marriage quality women.

 

[UpNext]

But I do not see why dudes keep talking about marriage if they have no interest in it. Marriage is about legacy building and security.If you do not want to get married, kl. And if you do, more power to you.

It's because most men want to get married, but when you're looking at a greater than 50% divorce rate and over 80% of divorces are being filed by women, you see things for what they are and understand you're participating in an institution that has been designed for you to fail. shyt I'm engaged but even I know there's a big time chance she'll eventually blow my shyt up by just being pragmatic and looking at the numbers.

 

[ItsPeople]

And you want her to have a ring too. That’s a symbol, well it’s supposed to be, that someone is taken.

You don’t your woman potentially having to engage with other men trying to talk to her, any longer than necessary. A ring cuts short a lot of attempts, especially a nice one.

Yes I do. It keeps the honest scumbags away.

 

[DatLBCGuy562]

I rather take a person like Samuel L Jackson, Denzel Washington and Grant Hill advice on marriage who been married a long time, but I would also take don cheadle advice because he didn’t married his wife till 20 years later despite them living together

But I also would take actor Jeffrey Wright advice who was married 14 years but ended up getting a divorce

Those the type of brothers I would listen to

These men are the exceptions, the outliers, NOT the norm and the standard for everyone. Don't delude or simp yourself into believing otherwise. The stats don't support the narrative you're trying to push. Over 60% of marriages FAIL, with women initiating over 80 percent of divorces. That's what I'll use as my basis for feeling how I feel, not no damn Denzel

 

[StretfordRed]

It's because most men want to get married, but when you're looking at a greater than 50% divorce rate and over 80% of divorces are being filed by women, you see things for what they are and understand you're participating in an institution that has been designed for you to fail. shyt I'm engaged but even I know there's a big time chance she'll eventually blow my shyt up by just being pragmatic and looking at the numbers.

You’re quoting these numbers with no reason behind them.

What if I was to ask WHY 80% of women ask for a divorce. Do you have those numbers?

Edit: fukk it, found some info myself Why Women File 80 Percent of Divorces | Divorce Source

As it seems, a large chunk of it is because a woman is unhappy due to affairs or the husband not being caring enough in a relationship:

This statistic suggests that more women are unsatisfied with their marriages, at least to the point of ending them, than men. Some marriages end for very objective reasons, such as physical abuse or addictions, and there are certainly many reasons for the dissatisfaction that exists. However, the husband and his actions – or his lack of them – play a significant role in causing and sustaining the dissatisfaction.

 

[Splash]

Everyone should just do what they want, I don't need your reasoning, I don't even care about your life.

 

[UberEatsDriver]

Isn’t wack married to his high schooo sweet heart

 

[Apollo Creed]

Marriage can be rewarding and beneficial for everyone. The problem is how people carry out their marriage.

Most people don’t have the ability to make their marriage unique to them based on what works for their family. They try to replicate what they think it should look like, ultimately acting the part and you can only pretend for so long.

Once people, especially black people start valuing partnership and overall growth (financial, spiritual, physical, emotional, etc) then marriage may make more sense. Right now we aren’t there and many are on a self/lonely “I can do it myself, can’t trust anyone” type vibe.

this nikka said partnership

lmfaoooooo

 

[5thbornpowerseed]

This logic only makes sense if you consider material wealth more important that community/nation building ...

And if you do, theres nothing wrong with that...

You just need to stop trying to convince others that you're "right"...

Let the righteous build and move out the way and enjoy your condo...

 

[UpNext]

These men are the exceptions the outliers, NOT the norm and the standard for everyone. Don't delude or simp yourself into believing otherwise. The stats don't support the narrative you're trying to push. Over 60% of marriages FAIL, with women initiating over 80 percent of divorces. That's what I'll use as my basis for feeling how I feel, not no damn Denzel

Yup and the way they're so dismissive of these numbers and the concerns these numbers bring is exactly why more and more men are starting to think like you. Instead of looking inward to fix those numbers so that their filing for divorce rates are as good as mens are, they want to try to make it seem like you're the problem when you're the one honoring your vows at a higher clip. You can't do nothing as husband but fight to keep your marriage going, if you're dealing with people who initiate divorces at such a disproportionate rate, you're clearing dealing with people who aren't showing up with the same amount of fight. They gotta fix that.

 

[DatLBCGuy562]

You’re quoting these numbers with no reason behind them.

What if I was to ask WHY 80% of women ask for a divorce. Do you have those numbers?

Edit: fukk it, found some info myself Why Women File 80 Percent of Divorces | Divorce Source

As it seems, a large chunk of it is because a woman is unhappy due to affairs or the husband not being caring enough in a relationship.

Women are perpetually unhappy and always looking for some shyt to complain and be miserable about. These bytches make themselves unhappy, literally. The reality of marriage is very mundane and routine. It ain't no damn Disney movie or carefully edited instagram video. Women get married with their focus on wedding day, and have no idea how yo navigate the marriage to come after that one day has passed. These chicks make themselves unhappy with their unreasonable expectations of their mate and not having a perspective that is rooted and based in reality. But everything is just the man's fault, huh?

You're either a woman, a homosexual, or you don't have much experience with dating and dealing with women....

 

[The Meteor Man]

The breh asked a good question. Most of y'all not married and/or had unplanned pregnancies / terminations and/or have kids outside of wedlock and/or have scandalous pasts... and have the temerity to shame him too. How's your retirement plan looking like, are you providing for your family, etc.




With that said, most of y'all 80% need to have someone else in your lives. Marriage is beneficial to society as it stabilizes men to some degree and they now have anchors around their feet. Also, women lessen the use of government resources to survive - that's "traditionally" the husbands job.

You are not that guy or gal to take life on by yourself - that is reserved for a few. Just off finances alone, you need a spouse because you are struggling in this country. Or would you rather rely on big government money to aid you in old age.

 

[UpNext]

Women are perpetually unhappy and always looking for some shyt to complain about. The reality of marriage is very mundane and routine. It ain't no damn Disney movie oflr carefully edited instagram video. Women get married with their focus on wedding day, and have no idea how yo navigate the marriage to come after that one day has passed. These chicks make themselves unhappy with their unreasonable expectations of their mate and not having a perspective that is rooted and based in reality. But everything is just the man's fault, huh?

You're either a woman, a homosexual, or you don't have much experience with dating and dealing with women....

They always go for cheating because it's the lowest hanging fruit and the one most pushed by media narrative and popular culture

Extramarital sex partners likely to be close friends, and men are more apt to cheat

Americans who admit to having extramarital sex most likely cheat with a close friend, according to research from CU Boulder’s Department of Psychology and Neuroscience.

www.colorado.edu

But according to this study men cheat at only an 8% higher rate than women.

It's cap. Women still divorce at a 60% greater clip.Women just aren't being groomed to be lifelong partners like that. It is what it is. When you get married as a man, despite what the world is telling you, odds are you're dealing with someone who has been conditioned to look for a reason to leave or create one when there isn't a real reason. "A man not being caring enough". Give me a fukking break with that cap ass shyt. You a grown ass adult trying to tell me this bullshyt. FOH.

 

[DropTopDoc]

Being married is what partner you chose and what you want and finding a like minded individual, just cuz you find a broad with a big ass, who doesn’t know how to assess when she’s wrong, or apologize that’s your fault if you don’t work on that before you marry her, if you dating a girl and she’s convenient p*ssy not a wife and you pop her off and she pressures you into marriage knowing you don’t want her