Wack 100 Explains Perfectly And Logically Why Men Shouldn't Get Married. Why Do People Get Mad At Men For Making Sense?

[Bud Bundy]

This place is full of mixed messages

Yall don't like single mothers but preach don't get married

 

[Neuromancer]

Come on man. You’re an artist who’s been fukking groupies lol.

You’re not going to get married anytime soon. So you’re mentality is almost instantly against marriage.

Does this make the info or what he said any less true?

 

[Neuromancer]

this thread title is almost an exact mirror of

Average Looking, Future Cat Lady Details Why She Plans On Being Single Forever....

While I can already tell this nutty bimbo is a chore to be around and all around insufferable based on her mini rant here, I agree with her somewhat. I've basically accepted that I'll be single forever because I refuse to be in a transactional relationship where I'm some chick's retirement plan...

www.thecoli.com

which was made a day earlier


in which both people state it is better to be alone, but this one is different because it's a man ... ¿ ?

You know damn well that's why.

 

[Bud Bundy]

It’s crazy how y’all be so against marriage and literally shame and scare other men from getting married then turn around and judge women for not being married. Complain about single moms, judge women that don’t have kids because they’re waiting for marriage, complain about broken homes but encourage men not to get married. I just…

It is everyday with there bullshyt and the two sides never check each other

 

[Legend27]

College educated women initiate 90% of divorces between college couples.

Ok so? How much are they actually divorcing and how long do their marriages last is the better substance. The most educated women are the more likely to be married in recent times, less likely to be divorced,more likely to describe their marriages as "happy" with women who have a college degree have an 80 percent chance of staying married beyond that 20-year mark.

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[UpNext]

Ok so? How much are they actually divorcing and how long do their marriages last is the better substance. The most educated women are the more likely to be married in recent times, less likely to be divorced,more likely to describe their marriages as "happy" with women who have a college degree have an 80 percent chance of staying married beyond that 20-year mark.

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And you just want to handwave the 90% number like that's not significant.


They'd have a 96% chance of staying married beyond that 20 year mark if they would take their vows as seriously and be as willing to do the internal work necessary to maintain a stable marital mental state as their male counterpart does. College educated men are only responsible for 2% of those homes breaking up.


But nope we got folks like yourself that just want to ignore the big numbers right in front of your face and then act like men don't see them, aren't aware of them and aren't adjusting their behaviors to what they see first hand with the women being so divorce thirsty and willing to break homes apart.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

What's with the extremes? Some of you are incapable of thinking outside the box.

Y'all act like not wanting to get married means being alone or to be constantly chasing women. The point is to find someone to build a partnership with without the state being a part of your relationship.

No one is advocating being alone. You can be together with a woman, live together, have children, work together financially, and not be married.

The main point of being against marriage is to avoid the hassle and stress that comes along with it like attorneys, judges, and family courts which historically have not been favorable to men. You can have judges decide not to honor a prenup. Without fair legal treatment marriage is too great of a risk.

Every couple I know who has done this ends up getting married eventually because legally trying to move as one when your not one is a pain. It becomes obvious why legal marriage is a thing once you actually get into the thick of it.

Paying money to legitimize every single legal thing gets old real quick when literally 1 marriage license does it all.

 

[Goat poster]

Marriage is an outdated concept

Watch how Gen z and Gen alpha throw that shyt in the bushes largely

 

[RareHunter]

And you just want to handwave the 90% number like that's not significant.


They'd have a 96% chance of staying married beyond that 20 year mark if they would take their vows as seriously and be as willing to do the internal work necessary to maintain a stable marital mental state as their male counterpart does. College educated men are only responsible for 2% of those homes breaking up.


But nope we got folks like yourself that just want to ignore the big numbers right in front of your face and then act like men don't see them, aren't aware of them and aren't adjusting their behaviors to what they see first hand with the women being so divorce thirsty and willing to break homes apart.

It’s alot of zesty brehs lately. Product of single mother homes.

 

[UpNext]

Marriage is an outdated concept

Watch how Gen z and Gen alpha throw that shyt in the bushes largely

When Gen Z and Gen Alpha throw it to the bushes, it'll largely be a reaction to the 80% filing rate. Young dudes aren't about to be gaslit into thinking they're as horrible of partners as women say they are, especially when you actually start having real relationships and noticing these women are every bit the headache they say men are. These dudes finna be like the fukk I'ma do all this work humbling myself and crow eating for if they're still gonna divorce us and try to make us seem less than anyway.

 

[RareHunter]

Marriage isn't easy, but it is rewarding. The key is finding the woman who gels with your goals, values as well as character traits.

This is very rarely said, but starting a family is more about creating a better community than a legacy. That's the foundation to a better world. It's interesting, how does a parent expect a child to "be all that they can be", when the parents didn't follow that same advice in their personal lives and develop themselves? What exactly can they teach that child to put them on the path of success, if they lack the tools to teach to begin with?

Men and women who make poor choices in life, please, do not get married. Men struggling financially have no business looking for a relationship or having a child. You can't even take care of yourself, how the hell are you going to provide for others who are depending on you.

Women who intentionally make poor choices in men disguised as sexual liberation, keep your sexually liberated asses away from the genuine and authentic men who are putting in the work to create a better environment for their future loved ones. If you're bored, get a f*cking hobby, not a side dude. Men who lack self control sexually and think they are some type of mack or player, stay away from the women who do want to be wives and mothers, and carry themselves that way. Don't ruin that woman who will be good to you.

This. All these disingenuous ppl in our community. It’s simple hoes stay with pimps and thugs and likewise. Both be tryna switch up, especially women.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

this is naïve and not in touch with the real world

not being married means you 100% have to have your assets and children managed by the legal system. the world is set up to automatically grant spouses certain things but if you are unmarried you will have to lawyer up for every little thing

bae is an attorney and the amount of bullshyt unmarried people both male and female have to deal with is unreal shoulda just got married smh

This is what I have seen as well. People are really ignorant about how the law works. Being married makes somethings more cut and dry. Not being married makes things more complicated and doesn't necessarily protect you.

For example, if an unmarried couple has a child that is 10 y/o and they break up and the woman files for child support the state can come after you for back child support for those 10 years. Not gonna happen if the couple had just gotten a divorce.

 

[UpNext]

But this doesn’t answer why you guys want women to be married but constantly tell the people they’re supposed to marry not to marry them. Shouldn’t you tell women not get married as well? Or do you guys just want something to hang over womens heads? like you’re worthless if you’re not married while encouraging men from a young age to avoid marriage at all costs. At least that makes sense.

You guys shame single mothers, shame older women that don’t have kids but encourage men to avoid marriage, how does that work?

It does. We want y'all to be and stay married, and until y'all actually STAY with the dudes who are taking the risk (because that's what marriage is for a man, a risk) even though they know the numbers, the wise advice will continue to be to not get married.


The women of this generation just gotta chop down their divorce rates and prove that men are making wise decisions marrying y'all. Not that difficult. Just get to where men are with the divorce filing percentages.

But I don't think they will from what I'm reading here. They want to do everything but work on their 80% filing rate. Point the finger at the person who's still in the trenches fighting to make the marriage work instead of at themselves.


And I just realized I already replied to this post. Gotta stop posting on thecoli while I'm working

 

[RareHunter]

This is what I have seen as well. People are really ignorant about how the law works. Being married makes somethings more cut and dry. Not being married makes things more complicated and doesn't necessarily protect you.

For example, if an unmarried couple has a child that is 10 y/o and they break up and the woman files for child support the state can come after you for back child support for those 10 years. Not gonna happen if the couple had just gotten a divorce.

I mean that was the purpose of allowing women to work by TPTB. To increase inflation, for women to spend money excessively (Easy to manipulate through media) and let daycare and TV raise the children. As things go down and the government has fkc all to give women and will no longer finance them and let them use the children against men, will be when this convo will stop being had. There will be no more discussion and natural roles will return.

 

[RareHunter]

It does. We want y'all to be and stay married, and until y'all actually STAY with the dudes who are taking the risk (because that's what marriage is for a man, a risk) even though they know the numbers, the wise advice will continue to be to not get married.


The women of this generation just gotta chop down their divorce rates and prove that men are making wise decisions marrying y'all. Not that difficult.

But I don't think they will from what I'm reading here. They want to do everything but work on their 80% filing rate. Point the finger at the person who's still in the trenches fighting to make the marriage work instead of at themselves.

Genesis 3:1​

“Now the serpent was more subtil than any beast of the field which the LORD God had made. And he said unto the woman, Yea, hath God said, Ye shall not eat of every tree of the garden?”

Genesis 3:15
To the woman he said, “I will surely multiply your pain in childbearing; in pain you shall bring forth children. Your desire shall be contrary to your husband, but he shall rule over you.”

This is just how they are. They like “bad boys and players”, because they like serpent like men who lie, deceive. It’s why men must always run a tight ship with them. Fathers have to guide them all the way. You can’t really reason with them. Matriarchies lead to chaos and destruction because they p*ssy foot around and no one says what needs to be said. No accountability

See how triggered they get if u don’t go along to get along? See how they did that youtuber dating guy.