Soon as I found this out my eyes opened wide as fukk on marriage, weddings, etc.
Wack 100 Explains Perfectly And Logically Why Men Shouldn't Get Married. Why Do People Get Mad At Men For Making Sense?
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StretfordRed
Afro-European
Come on man. You’re an artist who’s been fukking groupies lol.
You’re not going to get married anytime soon. So you’re mentality is almost instantly against marriage.
ThrobbingHood
Breh&Breh Associates™
Yeah, I remember reading about this when I was in college. I’ve been cynical ever since to all so called “traditions”. And yet, it’s not us men who place ‘value’ on the carats in a ring.
Even though we know most days/celebrations are marketing cash cows to exploit our emotions, most of us give in to it to make others happy: Valentine’s Day, thanksgiving, Christmas, mothers/Father’s Day.
perfectblack999
All Star
It’s your duty as a man to bring your children into a stable situation where they have a good chance of prospering. Having children without being married is somewhat irresponsible in my opinion. That’s just me though.
This is why marriage is important.
This is why marriage is important.
staticshock
Veteran
Take advice from fukkin Wack 100 brehs 
Marriage can be rewarding and beneficial for everyone. The problem is how people carry out their marriage.
Most people don’t have the ability to make their marriage unique to them based on what works for their family. They try to replicate what they think it should look like, ultimately acting the part and you can only pretend for so long.
Once people, especially black people start valuing partnership and overall growth (financial, spiritual, physical, emotional, etc) then marriage may make more sense. Right now we aren’t there and many are on a self/lonely “I can do it myself, can’t trust anyone” type vibe.
Most people don’t have the ability to make their marriage unique to them based on what works for their family. They try to replicate what they think it should look like, ultimately acting the part and you can only pretend for so long.
Once people, especially black people start valuing partnership and overall growth (financial, spiritual, physical, emotional, etc) then marriage may make more sense. Right now we aren’t there and many are on a self/lonely “I can do it myself, can’t trust anyone” type vibe.
Yeah but if you die suddenly without being married, and intestate at that, the government is the one that will divide your assets. Jam all your shyt up in probate and tax it to all hell. At least get a will on file and make your wife a remainder-man on the home if you’re not putting her on the deed
I would think the last you want is your grieving spouse battling with the government over assets you built together just because you were afraid too legalize your association.
this thread title is almost an exact mirror of
www.thecoli.com
which was made a day earlier
in which both people state it is better to be alone, but this one is different because it's a man ... ¿
?
Average Looking, Future Cat Lady Details Why She Plans On Being Single Forever....
While I can already tell this nutty bimbo is a chore to be around and all around insufferable based on her mini rant here, I agree with her somewhat. I've basically accepted that I'll be single forever because I refuse to be in a transactional relationship where I'm some chick's retirement plan...
www.thecoli.com
which was made a day earlier
in which both people state it is better to be alone, but this one is different because it's a man ... ¿
?
I hear what ya saying..
He does know the ins/outs of (his) marriage, but..
His marriage isn't the template for all marriages. Everyone's situation is unique. The
is marrying the right person.Lastly, I would understand a lil better if he divorced his wife, but if he is still with her then...
People need to do what they need to do and find out on their own whether marriage works for them or not..
ThrobbingHood
Breh&Breh Associates™
You make some fair points, but let’s make this clear, I am not afraid to “legalize” my association or however you want to creatively frame marriage. I choose not to be married because it’s a bad business deal.
Not because of who I could potentially marry, but because of how it could potentially end. And you’re right, I already wrote a Will 3 years ago. Writing it made me realize that I do want children because I’ll be dammed if all my hard work and assets will be decided by Uncle Sam.
Now you may ask “what about your spouse?” For me, when I do decide to have children, their well being will always take precedence over their mother. If I do have an untimely death, I will make sure there will be trusts set up for them to access, once they reach an age they can handle such financial responsibilities.
I’ve already had life insurance since I was in college, so my woman is already protected in that regard. But when it comes to my assets? I work in finance so I already know to make sure the government see as little of it as possible if I were to pass away early. That’s all I will say on that.
Take anything Wack 100 says seriously brehs…
