The responses show fools are still gullible and willing to get duped into the scam called marriage because of societal programming where sadly a good chunk of men today are still falling for.
This is a backwards ass world, the more folk realize that the less they'll get angry and frustrated about shyt and understand what the true agenda is. Finding what you're supposed to do in this world and Conquering that purpose is what men should be fixated on, not silly fairy tales.
You can't be making sense and goin against the grain of what these entities up top designed. You will always be shamed and bashed for revealing the truth regarding anything that exposes the real ulterior motive of the machine fueling this society.
If you plan to get married because you feel like you MUST or are caving into friends/family society's desires then you lost. If you truly found a woman that's in that 1% who you genuinely think is the one and is your soul mate then genuinely more power to you. At the same time a good 85% (and I'm prolly being generous) all thought they found the one and still end up getting divorced within <5 years.
I live in reality, most folk live in a deluded fairy tale world that was pushed on to them from youth then get disappointed and shattered when they ignores the facts. The facts are more than 50% pf marriages end in divorce and that figure is rapidly increasing. You gotta say fukk all that shyt and find out what's best for you as a man.