so then you think things like raising families and staying monogamous is regressive and hurtful to women?
No, saying a woman's life should be about sacrifice and love (according to your definitions of these terms) and "caregivers to our children" or she's a "tragedy" who's "lost to the world" is. Especially since you're absolving men of all these things. Do you think Florence Nightingale and Queen Elizabeth were "tragedies"? Mother Teresa?