the thing is...once your willing to go through step 1....there's a large possibility that u go through step 2, 3 and 4
and once he get his cheeks blown out, and he get that money in his hands....he'll rationalize it, justify it in his head...like "that wasn't so bad, plus its discrete"
next thing u know u become a full fledged homo...after the white dude toss u aside and find a new nikka.....now you're not only gay but you're accustomed to a high price lifestyle
and youll be selling ass to the highest bidder to maintain it