Update: GMB Great girl, cooks, cleans, independent, no male friends, no clubs or social media BUT..

[stave]

Well, the way OP tells it, she kind of uprooted her life as she knew it to move and be with him.

I'm not saying it's right of her to be stuck on the breh like that ... but I kind of get it.

That said, he tries to include her when he goes and does shyt. That's basically all you can ask of him.

Considering that OP says he enjoys the time he spends with her and doesn't get tired of her (though he wants space to do his thing, understandably so)... it doesn't seem like there's much of a dilemma to address. Why make a mountain out of a molehill?

I somewhat agree with this

If the little exchanges you have about not being around 24/7 aren't that bad, it might be tolerable

Get married, she’ll be asking for space in no time

but I fully agree with this too

and then when you have kids, it's all downhill from there

 

[TEH]

I like her skin tone

You won

Low key brag thread

But I’m not even mad

 

[MysticMonroe]

Sounds like she is an introvert. Keeps to herself, rather be with just you than a be around people who don't know her, likes being alone to think, etc. Maybe introduce her to someone who shares the same interest that maybe she'll click with.

 

[NkrumahWasRight Is Wrong]

I like the advice of getting a dog

 

[Stuntone]

Sounds like she is an introvert. Keeps to herself, rather be with just you than a be around people who don't know her, likes being alone to think, etc. Maybe introduce her to someone who shares the same interest that maybe she'll click with.

She is a introvert and doesn't have a big family. It's so wild and ratchet down here, no one trust anyone new. I just chill with family and a few old friends.

 

[b_low_brown]

You’ll either keep her and be sad

Or toss her to the side and regret it

Pick your fate

All jokes aside hold it down. She came out there just for your bytch ass? She’s a real one. Recognize and act accordingly breh.

 

[JLova]

To be honest if she is your best friend she will take up most of your time and I don’t see s problem with that as long as you take some time out every once in a while to do your own thing and also see your friends.

This is how good relationships work. She’s under you and you are under her and you .org enjoy each other while still maintaining friendships with others.

 

[raoulduke187]

fukk another bytch

 

[Max Power]

Women need to have something to nag/complain about.

Don't adjust anything.

If you fold she'll complain that you never let her have her own space.

 

[Ugo Ogugwa]

Funny looking country azz couple even with the masks. Bytch looks like she smells like mildew and you look like you work at Auto Zone.

 

[blockburna420]

:Whatwtf: aint that what a relationship is. I don't see the problem. You complaining just for the sake of complaining. Every dude gets tired of being around his chick and gets annoyed at the fact that she wants all your time.

 

[patscorpio]

when youre with someone obviously its good to have some common ground and activities that you can do together and or as a family if you have kids...its a balancing act but you also have to have your own interests...like my lady will schedule her get togethers, brunches, and night outs with her nurse friends or my sister and i go off on my weekend getaways to whatever fight i decide to go..and we both understand its what we like to do on our own..cant have them all under you all the time lol

 

[patscorpio]

Funny looking country azz couple even with the masks. Bytch looks like she smells like mildew and you look like you work at Auto Zone.

 

[Ghost Utmost]

OP

You just not ready to take care of a real woman yet.

You are gonna be dwelling on this 10 years from now when you ARE ready to put in the work necessary.

You're gonna be going all out for that future chick after you figure out that you can't have this separate life from your lady. You prolly like DJing and all that shyt so you can sniff behind other women

And she already knows that

But you'll be up staring at the woman you end up settling for and wondering why you didnt have enough sense to hold on to this current lady

If you want her, you have to make her happy Breh. Let her keep sitting home alone and sad

 

[newworldafro]

Low mileage woman in Louisiana.

I think you answered your own thread. All the other stuff is just icing.