That's because they haven't been invited.This is a good point but I don’t think often see Black women in White spaces talking down on Black men the way I see this in reverse. I can’t think of one instance of Black women sitting around a bunch of Whites saying that Black men are too Black, nappy head, fat, have out of wedlock kids, incarcerated, uneducated, etc. But I could be wrong.
Lets not pretend what happens here, You link with white people either trying to fit in or trying to grab a white audience no way are you checking them in real time.
Thats the case for Men and women.