What I'd express to Black American men is to not allow the egos we can have of men to blind us to what can also be a form of objectification/fetishisation that occurs when 'foreign' women express a form of desire, even when it comes from kinfolk.
She has effectively rebranded but she was essentially a Whoopi Goldberg type of media personality in the UK before moving to LA.
We know this girl from around the way.
Black British women and from my own personal experience, but also from what I see online and IRL a lot, seems to be happening with Black American women too is they are seeking Black men away from their respective home countries. It's been happening more and more gradually for a few years actually, and will continue.
Because we're so driven by social media and the way both cultures are interacting now, both sets of women are talking about their experiences with Black men and you can see the parallel if you're paying attention. The issue is, Black people get treated differently whilst in other countries generally speaking, whether amongst other Black people (who are native to that country) and/or other races of people. That extends to dating and relationships IMO.
Any Black American man with motion if they visit London, will have that amplified with Black British women here. The same very much occurs in reverse. I can attest to that personally, lol. That initial chemistry will always be somewhat fuelled by the novelty, and beyond that, shared cultural experience and work-able differences across both cultures, when dating Black people across the Diaspora.
But please, be under no mistake, this woman and her personal story does not speak to the collective Black British experience.
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