As has been said in this thread.
I refuse to integrate with cacs beyond a professional capacity.
You are not my friend, you don't have my best interest in mind, we have nothing in common. I don't subscribe to your ideology or your genealogy.
At work I'll politick and business with you as soon as the clock strikes 5:30pm I'll do me and you do you.
Everyone at my work knows this without me being bullish about it.
I've rejected countless invites for drinks after work, BBQ, going out.
They know I'm on that reverse