You don’t give grown men ultimatums
On some "it's either me or football!!" shyt, FOH
I will say he also fukked up by promising to retire and then going back on his word. That's a non-negotiable red line for 99.9% of us.
On the other hand TB was married to the game way before he married her. She knew that, and signed on for it.
Basically she came in second to his life's passion. A lot of people can't relate to that, because their marriage/family is # 1. Not so for Tom.
Anyway, he'll be cavorting with some Ybor City broads in no time
She'll be ok too, end up with some Euro shipping tyc00n.
Kids will go off to the Ivy League or whatever, sky's the limit for them