I think she does. But blk people gotta stop being sensitive. Calling out bullshyt doesn't mean hate. The thing that kills me about blk men and women dating out is u got the most greasy shyt to say about ur own race of people but will forgive whites for centuries of oppression, and when someone calls u on it u get accused of "bashing".
Nah. It don't work like that. Blk people literally out here embarrassing the fukk out of our race, worshipping whites, fukking our race away and blk men seem to want a pass. Don't cry "bashing" and "deflection" when there is a legitimate problem.
Certainly don't make up lies about blks b/c we got enough told about us as is.
Btw
@Roddy Right babe I'm still waiting on u to give me the years u wanted to focus on when it came to blk dudes swirling.
I feel like this. Black men who love, want, support and want to be with Black women. Those whose preference
is a Black woman -- are respectful to one. As the Black Woman whose preference is Black men should do the same.
Now, what I have seen on the Coli is
some BM here state they want BW and get upset/disappointed when a BW does date out. Understandable.
But, at the same time - when BW on this very site is kind, respectful and share the same sentiment - it's a lot of shyt thrown her way. Sure, it's manly the damaged, bitter, anti--Black folks that do it - but it's shyt is old and predictive. At this point - it's like come with some new shyt!
I can't count how many times I have been called a "b**tch, "bedwench" here -- either in a post just openly - or in my reps. It slim to none to see someone check another poster for that. I can defend myself - but it would be nice to see sometimes. But yet - I have never said, done or asked anything that wasn't respectful to them, our people or myself.
The idea that some people @ and questioning me in this thread on this topic because I asked
them to love and respect themselves and the people from whence they came. But, they pro-Black though?
You can't attack and "suspect" those who have no reason to be attacked.
Don't get mad that I asked you to up your debating skills, vocab, subject knowledge -- and to think for yourself to have a grown up exchange with me and others.