was that a response to me? it really didn't address the anything. It went on a tangent about how shyt was when you were a kid.
If they aren't focusing on anything else absolutely. If they have to focus on eating and having a roof over their heads or actually becoming productive members of society what do you think will happen?
So if a parent has to focus on become a productive member of society then asking them to parent and be their for their kids is too much? OR Asking a kid to produce at a minimum D's while ALSO becoming a productive member of society? You're full of shyt on either count.
I walked to school and took the subway growing up. If I didn't go or did badly I knew I would fail and that's all it took. I didn't rely on my parent for help with my homework and a child should not.
Then you think contrary to both how it WAS done and how it IS done and how it SHOULD BE done. You're wrong on all counts. A child's education is as much the responsibility of the parents as it is the education system.
How else are kids going to learn? This is the same as just pushing kids through the system which apparently some of you are fine with.
First off they learn by being involved. Kids, believe it or not, DO NOT LIKE SCHOOL by and large. They go because they have to. Parents make them, except when they don't and those are really the kids at the heart of this issue, kids who aren't involved because they are not made to do so and as kids are often not equipped to make decisions that will later their futures...such as going to school.
Pushing kids through the system is an entirely different topic...make that thread if you'd like.
Hey long as they attend they pass! This is despicable and totally unacceptable. No wonder there are so manny maladjusted people in our society.
yes i'm sure THAT is the reason
I'm pretty sure a child in grade school can wipe their own ass. Could you? I don't know what children are supposed to do.
CLEARLY.
No one had it easy you ate at school and you ate late at night granted your parents worked. I could cook any meal for myself by the time I was 12.
Me too. I was a latchkey kid as much as the next guy, BUT I also had my moms and pops checking homework, as they should have. There seams to be some deeper rooted issues here with you and this topic.
Coddle your kids till they are good for nothing it's the American way!
AMEN! I couldn't agree with you more. Letting your kids do whatever the fuk they want in terms of their education is the epitome of coddling. Pretending your kids are adults and not children is coddling, forcing your kid to do what's best for them in spite of
their vast experience is parenting homeboy.
A child should be able to exert themselves without external pressure. Isn't graduating and doing well enough? Doesn't it feel good to succeed?
You must be a parent of the "here's a gold star generation".
OIC you're one of "those". I'm a parent of the "i'll stick my foot in your ass generation" huge difference. I also know kids are prone to mistakes as they are not always equipped to make the right choices. That's the reason we don't hold them accountable for some of their actions as stringently as we do adults. THEY ARE FUKIN KIDS. You, on the other hand, think a 6 -17 year old is of complete sound and mind and experience to make life changing decisions, ones that alter their future.
Do you have kids 88?