If they aren't focusing on anything else absolutely. If they have to focus on eating and having a roof over their heads or actually becoming productive members of society what do you think will happen?
I walked to school and took the subway growing up. If I didn't go or did badly I knew I would fail and that's all it took. I didn't rely on my parent for help with my homework and a child should not. How else are kids going to learn? This is the same as just pushing kids through the system which apparently some of you are fine with. Hey long as they attend they pass! This is despicable and totally unacceptable. No wonder there are so manny maladjusted people in our society. I'm pretty sure a child in grade school can wipe their own ass. Could you? I don't know what children are supposed to do. No one had it easy you ate at school and you ate late at night granted your parents worked. I could cook any meal for myself by the time I was 12.
Coddle your kids till they are good for nothing it's the American way!
A child should be able to exert themselves without external pressure. Isn't graduating and doing well enough? Doesn't it feel good to succeed?
You must be a parent of the "here's a gold star generation".