Pure Water
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The only way I would raise another mans child is if he's dead.
TK Kirkland "The worst thing you can do is to raise another man's child, its mental illness"
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Doomed, fukking doomed
Eternally Jaded
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That doesn't reflect badly on him, that says everything in the world about her.
My uncle by marriage married my aunt who had a child by a good-for-nothing and my cousin was on demon time for years.
He stayed steady, remained true to his own character and now she'll literally fight someone in the streets if she thinks they're disrespecting him.
A man of character does what he does because it's in him, not because he's looking for a reward or applause.
TK saying something like this isn't a surprise because only someone as perpetually bitter as TK would even fix their face to say something like this.
He sounds like a dumbass, which lo and behold, it's TK.
Nobody talks about widowed mothers or considers them in the same group of the rest of single mothers, relax
Belize King
I got concepts of a plan.
People are stupid unfortunately. You can’t control their emotions. You really shouldn’t have expectations.
I have two biological daughters and when they hit their teens…
I’ll be ready
CreepyMcCreeperson
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I only see it as a problem if she has kids by more than one man. Then, it shows she’s irresponsible, because she let this happen twice.
And a single mom doesn’t mean the father isn’t active in the child’s life.
And a single mom doesn’t mean the father isn’t active in the child’s life.
got 2 step kids... all they know is me .. came in the picture when 1 was 3 and the other was 1...
their mommas tried to tell me the dads not... ion wanna hear that bullshyt...tell that to a nikka who care
freddy kruegar with the ruler
their mommas tried to tell me the dads not... ion wanna hear that bullshyt...tell that to a nikka who care
freddy kruegar with the ruler
skyrunner1
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JUST had a breh flying in for bmore cuz he was locked in with a chick for a minute, got attached to the kids and all raise them as his own..
They having a grown up discussion and the son come in room say that shyt and start balling up fist ready to fight.. Breh was soo stunned, he said he didnt even know what to do, he said hell fukk nah, hopped on first flight down.. Soul crushing is best word..
People go thru these situations and be the main ones who say fukk them kids and preach to others
But everyone got to learn for themselves soo it is what it is
Nigerianwonder
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Raising another mans kids is all risk and no reward. He is right in that aspect. It's not the worst thing you can do but its definitely one of the dumbest if you have options.
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KANG LIFE
So Shaq step dad didn't win????
cyndaquil
Lv 100 Bold natured
People are so concerned about the decisions of other people. Live and love your own damn life. So many men are better off in this world because they had a solid step-father. Its not for everybody but we really gotta stop spreading this nonsense then looking down on men for being "fatherless". At the end of the day the issue really is people want someone to look down on. Weak minded behavior
u be a fool to say he didnt... phill knew how to handle the situation..he allowed it... then if the biological wanted to step up.. he would let him.. he allowed shaq to see wha it was...
Are you an adult?
And are you Black?
Yall weirdos don’t got no friends or fam that was raised by someone who wasn’t their original birth father and they live normal?
I’m living in the matrix lol
Someone posted Shaq he def came to mind but coming from a city where a lot of fatherless black boys are robbing carjacking and murdering, I would say the most honorable thing a black man could do is actually try to create a family structure with a woman he loved instead of another broken home instead listening to some dumbass comedian who wouldn’t spit on him if he was on fire
Nigerianwonder
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Initially I didn't agree with him saying its mental illness. But reading your post got me reconsidering. You have normalized dysfunction to the point where you wear it as a badge of honor. That is indeed mental illness. Have some respect for yourself.
There is no honor in raising another mans responsibility (assuming he is still alive). And low key your women doesn't respect you for doing it either but that's another thread.
You have almost no rights as a step parent over the step kids but they will be living in your house taking up your time and energy and draining your bank account. You got no legal rights, no rights to how they are educated, no medical access rights etc. The biological parent retains all that even if they are a deadbeat. And if your dumb enough to marry a woman with kids even if you raise them from babies, if yall ever divorce you get no custody or visitation rights. all risk. no reward. No thank you.