Peruvian Connect
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Not ore soul crushing that your bio kid saying I hate you. i wish you wasn;t my dad or why can;t Mr James be my dad. Kids say hurtful things. Put ya big boy draws on,
TK Kirkland "The worst thing you can do is to raise another man's child, its mental illness"
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Rasille
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I feel like once you get a woman pregnant you and the child’s mother have to put y’all bullshyt to the side to raise that child. It’s not about what you want anymore. It’s about the kid. As long as I’m alive and breathing and healthy no other man is raising my kids, no other man is gonna have my kids sitting on his lap or calling him “dad” or “daddy”.
Peruvian Connect
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All these hypotheticlals and what if as if bio kids don't hate their parents. disrepect their parents. Like wives don't cheat with exes, co workers and mailmen.When you take care of another man’s kid, you’re basically accepting that you will never come first, second, third or fourth…. Youre gonna be an afterthought for the rest of your days… you’re gonna be emotional support for the mother, a wallet for the kids and a resource… you’re gonna go to work and bust your ass to support a kid who might not even respect you all while you risk having your woman cheating on you with her kids REAL father (if he’s still in the picture)
No thanks
Of course there are exceptions to this, but it plays out this way in many cases more than you think
trap101-ETHout-Allegri-In
Superstar
This one is definitely going viral.... about to be a gender war flare up the rest of this weekend going into next week...
god shamgod
Veteran
terrible advice , black community has idiots tryin to lead and advise
So basically any child who pops aint around should be charged to the game according to this dumb fukk
So basically any child who pops aint around should be charged to the game according to this dumb fukk
This is getting ridiculous
Henny and_ HotWings
A well seasoned nikka
This is true…. BUT if a kid doesn’t respect me, let it at least be a kid that I brought in this world… cuz guess what? I can discipline that little mf the way I see fit…
But if it’s ANOTHER man’s kid??? Not only are you most likely not allowed to discipline him, but it’s ANOTHER man’s kid which means you don’t have to go through that shyt… you could easily walk away and avoid the unnecessary stress but instead you’re CHOOSING to STAY in the bullshyt
Therefor it’s WORSE
Illuminatos
#OVOXO
It’s goofy as hell but worst mistake you can do is kind of pushing it.
RickyDiBiase
The Sword of Jesus of Nazareth
Here's how stupid it is
What about kids who's dad's pass away? What about them? They can't have a male influence keep them on the straight and narrow?
Again
Like, what is the point of this kinda content. Who thinks this shyt is entertainment, let alone needed.
King_Kamala61
TheColi's Favorite Artist
Belize King
I got concepts of a plan.
Georgiamuscle
Superstar
Right on cue
MoveForward
Veteran
The mothers need to pick better and make it work for the kids…
King_Kamala61
TheColi's Favorite Artist
I've been said this on LSA to the best of Birds and they all say the same shyt ..why do we have to pick better men and why can't all men be better.
We are cooked. We good men just have to do our due diligence and find a good black women to have children with or don't have children at all
god shamgod
Veteran
Exactly
I have a co worker just turned 30, has a 5 year old son.the kids father was murdered when she was 5 months pregnant. She’s a pretty ,single ,homebody. Don’t see any issue with playing a role for her kid if you feelin her.