Tia Mowry can pinpoint the exact moment she knew her marriage was over "its about self love "

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When you get older you'll begin to understand that staying together for the kids only hurts everyone. If you can't be happy in your relationship, there's no way you can be in the best state possible to rear healthy kids. She graduated from a situation where she was u happy to one where she is.

On another note, most of you wouldn't give a shyt about this relationship if it were not for the fact that she found him at a bus stop and saved him.

Grab some breakfast kiddo.

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nikka I’m married with 3 kids. I know the trails and tribulations of marriage. Are u married? If not please stfu.
 

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Crazy that men get defaulted into being some kind of monsters for breakups. Then when you listen to the women talk, they be like "i just left because i felt....level up....graduation...new year new me...."
What's crazy is people still try and blame the men. "He must have cheated", "he must have been a bad husband" and all that shyt.

Her own words make her sound narcissistic but they still get twisted to make him the villain.
 

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nikka I’m married with 3 kids. I know the trails and tribulations of marriage. Are u married? If not please stfu.

Tia was married with kids as well, do you know for sure that your wife isn't unhappy?
 

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Its time to change these laws to reflect the temporary mindset that seems to be coming from marriage.. Its too one sided at this point.. Just make it a renewable contract every few years and be done with it.. Humans are serial monogamous, its time marriage reflect that..
Corey Holcomb had a joke years ago. He said a Marriage License is one of the only licenses that does not have a renewal.

It should be up for renewal every four years or so like a Drivers License. We all laughed when he said it but now it seems necessary. When it’s time for renewal both parties sit down and decided whether to keep going or not :ehh:
 

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When you get older you'll begin to understand that staying together for the kids only hurts everyone. If you can't be happy in your relationship, there's no way you can be in the best state possible to rear healthy kids. She graduated from a situation where she was u happy to one where she is.

On another note, most of you wouldn't give a shyt about this relationship if it were not for the fact that she found him at a bus stop and saved him.

Grab some breakfast kiddo.

:francis:

This type of thinking is why the divorce rate is so trash. Dont get married and say vows before God and family...'for better or for worse, death do us part'...just for you to renege a few years later to have some more "fun".

You think breaking up the nuclear family is somehow better for children?....bc the kids get to see mommy be "happy" with her new bf....and then mommy is no longer happy again after a couple years, so the kids get to see her be "happy" with a new boyfriend...but that doesnt work either bc mommy isnt happy still....so kids get to see mommy happy with another nikka...etc

U minus well stay #GMB if your commitments sway with your temporary emotional states
 

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Corey Holcomb had a joke years ago. He said a Marriage License is one of the only licenses that does not have a renewal.

It should be up for renewal every four years or so like a Drivers License. We all laughed when he said it but now it seems necessary. When it’s time for renewal both parties sit down and decided whether to keep going or not :ehh:
The government won’t do because most folks will opt out.
 

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Corey Holcomb had a joke years ago. He said a Marriage License is one of the only licenses that does not have a renewal.

It should be up for renewal every four years or so like a Drivers License. We all laughed when he said it but now it seems necessary. When it’s time for renewal both parties sit down and decided whether to keep going or not :ehh:


I remember he said that, I laughed then 7 minutes later, I was like man that's not a bad idea.

Every 4-5 years, we have to come to the table and see if we want to do a re-up for another 4 or 5 years :russ:


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When you get older you'll begin to understand that staying together for the kids only hurts everyone. If you can't be happy in your relationship, there's no way you can be in the best state possible to rear healthy kids. She graduated from a situation where she was u happy to one where she is.

On another note, most of you wouldn't give a shyt about this relationship if it were not for the fact that she found him at a bus stop and saved him.

Grab some breakfast kiddo.

:francis:


When you get older you are supposed to become content and wise. No where in the vows or your (their) bible does it speak on this nonsense you are pumping.

How are the kids being hurt? I hear that statement a lot, kids growing up in separate homes hurt the kids. It's a fact that black kids under 2 parent homes do better in life than kids that come from 1 parent homes.

How in your statement are the kids benefitting from mama being for the streets now? because that's what usually happens after that "self-love" energy runs out after 4 months
 

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This type of thinking is why the divorce rate is so trash. Dont get married and say vows before God and family...'for better or for worse, death do us part'...just for you to renege a few years later to have some more "fun".

You think breaking up the nuclear family is somehow better for children?....bc the kids get to see mommy be "happy" with her new bf....and then mommy is no longer happy again after a couple years, so the kids get to see her be "happy" with a new boyfriend...but that doesnt work either bc mommy isnt happy still....so kids get to see mommy happy with another nikka...etc

U minus well stay #GMB if your commitments sway with your temporary emotional states

I'm not suggesting that she reneged to have fun and neither did she. If people are in a relationship and they aren't happy in said relationship, the entire house will be miserable which will also have a negative impact on the benefits of being in a nuclear family.

I'm of the opinion that people should get therapy BEFORE marriage so they can make a more honest assessment of whether or not marriage is for them. Tia went to therapy while she was already married and reached the conclusion that parting ways with her husband was the best path forward. The alternative was to languish in an unhappy marriage.

I'm pro marriage and I am also pro therapy. I'm in CBT once a week and it's honestly one of the best decisions I've made in my entire life.

:hubie:
 

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Till death do us part.

Did one of yall die? No?


Well then














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Divorce is always a failure. Even if the other person was completely wrong. You still have to evaluate your decision making.
 
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