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No more PAWGs, PLEASE??!!!??
Let's see what happens 2-5 years from now.
Tia Mowry can pinpoint the exact moment she knew her marriage was over "its about self love "
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skyrunner1
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The fact that people fall for the "Im not happyyyyy" tells you everything you need to know. Ending a marriage over a temporary feeling makes no sense. Some people legit have reason to get out of marriage but there is no permanent happiness. She said she was in a successful marriage but ends it.Corey Holcomb had a joke years ago. He said a Marriage License is one of the only licenses that does not have a renewal.
It should be up for renewal every four years or so like a Drivers License. We all laughed when he said it but now it seems necessary. When it’s time for renewal both parties sit down and decided whether to keep going or not
This search for permanent happiness and self love is getting skewed in some warped way.. When you have stuff like that it is impossible to have a long term marriage and the stats bear that out especially in our community. Black women by large margin seem to view marriage as temporary setup, they need to change them laws
Your argument anchors on the idea that she left her husband for some new dikk. She tells us that she left because she was unhappy in her marriage.
The definition of content is "in a state of peaceful happiness", if she is unhappy, she definitionally can not also be content. It is a fact that Black kids under 2 parent homes do better in life but being in a chaotic 2 parent household is not beneficial which is why she likely reached a crossroad where the options were "stay and be unhappy" or "leave and be happy".
International Playa
Playa with a Passport
Homegirl hasn't been on a date in 14+ years (since 2000's), the reality of the current dating market will hit her hard
She's saying she became too mature for him. But she was posting thirst traps on Instagram while still married
This thread went plat with the quickness.
Shows you that social media is literally DNA level with folks these days. It ain’t even generational. It’s the era we are in.
She is so eager to post traps on social media, gets likes/follows and have her DMs obese — well she has it.
No need to juelz about evolving and graduating and whatever BS euphemisms she’s cooking up to say that she wanna be in her 2nd Childhood.
These bytches are rentals.
Sauce and Footwork
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Unless he mistreated her, which I don’t know. Unless that which is the only good reason… she is a fukking selfish idiot. And delusional..Been happily married 10 years now with children and if it ended it’s a failure. Don’t have to call it a waste of time, but If your marriage ends it is a failure. The outgrowing excuse is bullshyt because you are both already individuals with differences in personalities to a point. You can express yourself without doing shyt for the opposite sex attention like being “sexy for social media” . And you should have good balanced loyal friends for another outlet. No other way to look at it. And the kids suffer and don’t want step families or going back and forth for holidays l, weekends or whatnot. People always try to lie and act like they kids are cool with it and still happy which is bullshyt
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Your argument anchors the idea that the husband was coming home yelling and slapping her around and she was this poor poor little helpless soul who couldn't do anything or nothing because she was living with a big bad mean husband. Woe her.
Who's responsible for making self-happy? The world, or yourself? Again, let me get these straight, if she was a child/teenager, who is responsible for her happiness?? Her parents? Are her boss/coworkers on her job responsible for her happiness?
She left because she was unhappy, she wrecked her marriage and family because she was unhappy, the man and her kids did not make her happy??
She doesn't need to be with NOBODY
But let me ask you this, what happens now that she's single, who is supposed to make her happy now that she's single?? Whose job it is to do that now that she's single??
Her Ex-Husband?? Because apparently, he was supposed to do it while they were married, so is it his job to do it now that she's single?? Who job it is to do that now that she's single??
Cat piss martini
Veteran
Translation: shes ready to fukk other people.
I'm not claiming that it was anyone else's responsibility to "make" her happy. I don't believe that's how happiness works to begin with. What we do know is that she was un-happy in her marriage. What she does now is hopefully continue going to therapy so that she can ultimately confront what the source of her unhappiness is. Maybe this leads her back to her husband ultimately, maybe it does not but what we know for sure is that unhappy parents can't be present and show up for their children OR their spouses in the ways they need them to.
ObsidianDev
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I never get tired of seeing this gif
If bad things happen in the relationship, it is what it is. I'd lose my shyt if I was a good husband and she hit me with "Thanks for the curriculum but it is time to graduate".
Obligatory.
International Playa
Playa with a Passport
Neo. The Only. The One.
THE ONE
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Dallas' 4 Eva
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I believe it. I challenge every man in here to go to one of these 'therapy' sessions women champion so much. You will more than likely leave the same way I left, saying I can't believe I paid money for that shyt. I give women the
when they try to suggest that goofy shyt to me now.She needs to be ignored by all black men, she left a good dude because she was unhappy, just like the ignore button is used on here, it should be a real ignore button among black men, all good black men.
She needs to be left alone and left to be happy by herself.
You're not claiming it but you're pushing it as an out instead of pushing the vows that she spoke. She's a home wrecker. She destroyed and left her marriage.
This is why black women can't find dudes, good dudes, to stick around for the long term, women happy on Monday and could be unhappy Monday night because of what?? the change of the wind. Men, black men are not putting up with the nonsense and that's why you see why dating is in shambles. Men will smash, have fun for 2-6 months, dismiss and repeat the cycle with the next chick, leaving that chick scarred, because he, the man doesn't want to be left//hurt because a chick decided she wasn't happy anymore.
This incident is only hurting black women in the long run, it's downright sad, this shyt isn't empowering as she may think it is. Just goofy