Idk too many “good women” who use dating sites. Then again my standards are probably more stringent than urs. So I cant argue with that.
And sad it as may be, a divorced woman in her 30s has an uphill battle. So thats a reality. Women also initiate 70% of divorces so whose to say she didnt ruin the marriage herself?
But there is also a huge segment of women who sleep around and live it up until their 30s then want to settle down. They dont realize that yes u have that right, but alotta men dont wanna wife u in that predicament. Especially the men that they want. Then comes the name calling and shaming bc men excercise their choices. Ive never heard of a good woman who is mid 30s and divorced. Maybe good as a person but not a good mate, way too much baggage.
I still don't understand your logic that most good women don't use dating sites.
As far as being divorced it depends on the circumstance. Some women were treated badly and cheated on or some parted ways mutually it happens it doesn't make you a bad partner automatically. Some people get it right the second time.