Depends on ur environment. In education all the women are married and the older men are divorced or single with MAJOR baggage at a university I used to work at.
Like u coming with kids from a previous marriage, alimony and child support payments, and a big chip on ur shoulder against anything female, all while looking lirsty. Lonely and thirsty. Should'nt have started feeling urself. Shoulda been faithful instead of chasin hoes that didn't really want you. Now you in debt and mad and disgruntled talm bout what's wrong with young women these days, all while creeping out chicks decades younger than you in a cringeworthy attempt to act "cool".
Nah imma pass on tea at ur house. We can meet on campus..."sir".
"You don't have to call me sir...makes me feel old."
"Yes sir, so about those stats..."
One of my good male friends rolled up on me trying to make a socially acceptable exit from an older male colleague one time. Dude was givin that older man the
face. "Babe, you ready?"
"Oh sorry to keep you..."
I'm like LAWD!
Word is good sir cheated with a grad assistant and got cleaned out by his ex wifey.
Life got a way of humbling everybody.