The whole GMB thing is ridiculous

[Ya?]

A lot of married men are simps living that "happy wife, happy life " lifestyle. Not all of us are though. I encourage marriage if both parties are invested in long term love, wealth building, family and power.

Things can happen though, so I also believe in divorce but as for the institution of marriage, Im all for it.

these conversations goes nowhere cause people dont want to look at why relationships fail.

 

[Ya?]

Im married and i fully support GMB, and i say that unironically.

Most people getting married have no business getting married and sped through all the red flags just to do something that they were trained to believe they should do.

If we have 50% of marriages ending in divorce, then the wrong people are getting married.

GMB today and always

but that becomes a question of people learning to be relationship partners.

 

[Ya?]

If you can find you a good woman who compliments you, cherishes you, respects you, etc youshould absolutely get married. The problem is a lot of westernized women are not raised to be wives.

and western men arent raised to be husbands, we can go around in circles all day

 

[Ya?]

even my nikka gold dust, I mean Gold, said it aint worth it, but these nikkas wanna


trust me, I got a gang of nikkas my age that are married that are like


Me living a broad:

he didnt say it isnt worth it, he said people need to prepare themselves to marriage, which is true. You cant live a bachelor lifestyle in a relationship.

 

[Ya?]

The only way he is going to know if that women's loves him or not is to leave . She could be with him just out of habit . As fukked as it sounds you don't know a black women love you until you leave a couple of times . You know a women's loves by what she is willing to SACRIFICE for you ....

this topic never singled out 1 race of women, you need to wor out your personal hang ups with BW. You stay trying to make racial remarks on women in threads that dont ask fir it.

 

[Ya?]

"Joking aside, this whole GMB thing is really disgraceful for a self proclaimed black site. Yes, adults step our on each other and marriage can be bad, or even end at times, but this whole wave of not even trying to create a unified home for a child/children is just terrible."

- @THE MACHINE



Stop ignoring that women end 71% of divorces. Men don't have commitment issues. There commitment is typically reward with divorce and a judge's thumb up their ass.

I believe blaming women for not being "traditional" is ridiculous, also. There's a host of reasons society has a hard time with "traditional" monogamy.

Hell, it's expected you have fukked 15 different people before you "settle" down. Things have changed.


Now, you're making false equivalences. #GMB isn't #MGTOW. The later is literally some asexual, loser shyt. #GMB is typically a response to unfortunate circumstances involving a simping husband or divorce.

I believe the only thing in life that matters is the love of a life partner.

The idea that it can only be achieved through marriage (unless you subscribe to a religion) is baseless.

Marriage = Love is the only point I am personally making.

A marriage license is basically a lease to another human being.




You're committing a logic fallacy, my brother.

No, Marriage isn't 0/100 or 100/100. No one should be making the case for either.

But, they are plenty of reasons people are getting married later in life. Our culture adds certain strains to relationships not were not even though of 50 years old.

Our grandparents did not HAVE to have a side hustle. Consumerism wasn't in full swing--most houses did not even have a TV. It wasn't an expectation for a laymen to maintain the live of a proletarian--yearly trips, two cars, cellphone for the family, a bunch of media subscriptions, etc.

Hell, in most places the average income isn't enough to afford the average monthly mortgage.

I'm not correct about everything. But, the fact is; there are many factors that make marriage difficult and non-feasible other than character flaws.

To the bolded: simple answer to that, men generally dont like to end relationships even if they are checked out of it. Plenty of relationships where a guy will make you end the relationship by the thing he does.

Until we have stats on why women issue divorce, that is not an indication of anything. Not beginning the divorce process isnt an indication that you are committed to the relationship.

 

[Ya?]

Gonna be alot and I mean alot of unhappy people around 55-60 just looking for anything that seems like love

Always, a lot of these dudes are going to be looking for a caretaker/companion at their old age, harassing young women such as myself.

 

[Ya?]

I really wanna know who broke y’all like this? Never mind I don’t wanna know. Y’all just keep playing it cool and don’t go out there and nobody I’m out.

his uncle was a pimp.

 

[Biscayne]

It's anti family and Low key

Unrealistic and unhealthy


This kind of thinking needs to go away.

What’s unrealistic about not getting married? I’d imagine not finding someone who loves you for you and wants to marry is more realistic than thinking you’ll find someone.

 

[Ya?]

As for this you would be wrong . Having a family is a beautiful thing anyone with some sense would back me up on that . What I don't like about this environment in America is that when you talk about women and the things they do or what you have gone threw your labeled as " you hate women " "your mother's black " " you can get no p*ssy" " who hurt you " " your probably gay on the low " . See that type is lack of empathy for what a man is and what he goes threw which is why a LOT of men aren't going to get married the game is very one sided . I get that it a bunch of men that are extremist but that's not what I stand for . I have a goddaughter who I love to death I get how important kids are . I just think America including many women don't see men as important ...they just see men as UTILITY and nothing more . These times we live in are not TRADITIONAL so why do I have to think in a TRADITIONAL fashion ?

It all love thoe

In that respect, that is not exclusive to men. A lot of the things men are complaining about have been happening to women for centuries. The current laws on marriage that favour women are less than 50 years but now that the shoe appears on the other foot, I guess the wearer doesn't enjoy the fit.

I have no problem defending men who deserve to be defended, where these topics go off course is male entitlement even when they are deserving of defence. Men ascribing what they can get away with according to the fact that they are men but getting mad that women getting away with things according to the fact that they are women.

 

[Ya?]

I think it’s more about not fueling black womens sense of entitlement and having options

lol by fuelling the entitlement of the most entitled race women in the world. This has nothing to do with not fueling BW entitlement but everything to do with some men thinking they weigh high on sexual hierarchy therefore, it makes up for what they lack in other areas.

 

[Soundbwoy]

as the godfather of paagset, and a spokesman for #gmb, I'd like to know why you want me to get married so badly? I travel the world and do my own thing, whats wrong with that?

jesus and budda never married, is something wrong with them?

there nothing wrong with either but you have to think down the line, my boy is GMB till the death like to party and drink but he recently had an stroke in his house luckily for him his cousin was there when it happened. There are plenty of good woman around that playa shyt ain’t long term goal for me

 

[Gold]

but that becomes a question of people learning to be relationship partners.

True, but they can learn that outside of marriage and then get married later.

I take the idea of making vows before man and God very VERY seriously. If you aren't in it for life then please dont even purchase the ring.

 

[BlackJesus]

lol by fuelling the entitlement of the most entitled race women in the world. This has nothing to do with not fueling BW entitlement but everything to do with some men thinking they weigh high on sexual hierarchy therefore, it makes up for what they lack in other areas.

Huh?

 

[ThrobbingHood]

Huh?

Don’t feed the troll.