The whole GMB thing is ridiculous

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A lot of people are misunderstanding GMB.

Marriage is a legal contract. One in which a bad actor can take advantage of e.g. blac Chyna, the people from the 90 day fiancee extended universe, countless NBA and NFL ex wives etc. Men are often targets of financial and emotional abuse, but because our society assumes men have limitless privilege and are predatory, there is no sympathy for these men in the same way there is for women who are taken advantage of.

You can have a long fulfilling relationship and raise children without ever getting the courts involved through marriage. Again, marriage is a LEGAL arrangement. Men who are clowned/sympathized with through the GMB tag are men who didnt take it slow enough and get to know the woman they were with. They allowed themselves to be pressured into marriage or otherwise bought into the fantasy that it is something you need to do to be a complete and happy human being.

Women and men fall into all sorts of traps because they look at another person as "what can I get out of them?" Whether its men who desire sex and basically a maid and a cook who will never question them or constructively criticize them or voice their pain. Or women who want a tall baller who she can impress her friends and family with by constantly bringing up his status and looks, and garner countless social media props and overall attention.

That selfish motivation is what leads into disaster.
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. There are plenty of good woman around that playa shyt ain’t long term goal for me
notice the last 2 words. FOR YOU.

im not alone. i dont know why you think i am......but trust me...im not. im good. and if i have a stroke. I have multiple women here to come call my fam...and or take care of me.


none of that means anything about marriage.


ill go back to my initial question....why do you want me to get married so bad. its fukking weird.
 

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Pandering to women and being " Mr happy wife happy life " "You can't handle a real women" " you suppose to be a man and MAKE it work" nikkas like that are only making it worse .

Every “happy wife, happy life” guy is miserable. That’s no way to live.
 
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To the bolded: simple answer to that, men generally dont like to end relationships even if they are checked out of it. Plenty of relationships where a guy will make you end the relationship by the thing he does.

Until we have stats on why women issue divorce, that is not an indication of anything. Not beginning the divorce process isnt an indication that you are committed to the relationship.
Economics is often cited as the reason
 
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Matter of fact if you women see all the pander that these dudes is doing and "happy life happy wife" and "It takes a real man to make it work" "queen this and queen that " and "The black women is God" ass nikkas . To the women IF you don't call out these pandering ass nikkas YOU are apart of the problem. The only reason y'all allow nikkas to pander to you is cause it makes your ego feel good plus you get attention . Start calling these goody two shoes have ass nikkas out ...
 

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notice the last 2 words. FOR YOU.

im not alone. i dont know why you think i am......but trust me...im not. im good. and if i have a stroke. I have multiple women here to come call my fam...and or take care of me.


none of that means anything about marriage.


ill go back to my initial question....why do you want me to get married so bad. its fukking weird.
I don’t give a fukk of you get married or not I’m just giving the other side, for me GMB is about making smarter choices in women and not ignoring red flags because you have home p*ssy
 

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I don’t give a fukk of you get married or not I’m just giving the other side, for me GMB is about making smarter choices in women and not ignoring red flags because you have home p*ssy
you think getting into a relationship that is 56% likely to end up in shambles is the smarter choice? numbers dont lie ...if I told u to hop out a plane and the parachute has a 56% chance of opening.....you'd make that jump? this is a smart choice to you?
 

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The site has to stop believing that the person who doesn’t initiate the divorce is the one that is the most committed.
There are a lot of men who don’t want to initiate divorce but want out of relationship.
Again coli being disingenuous.

Where’s your husband at?
 

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