The whole GMB thing is ridiculous

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Ya? said:
what does work with men entail that doesnt consist of women making all concessions and accept all negative behavior.
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I’ll answer this “question” by asking about your own words:

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these conversations goes nowhere cause people dont want to look at why relationships fail.
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Why do relationships fail, in your opinion?
 
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Ya? said:
I always laugh when dudes say this as if they areNT the product of the same western society. What makes you think you would make a good partner.

Its not guys raised in the hood calling women hoodrats as if they are some gift to the world.
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Right!! All of this.
 
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ThrobbingHood said:
Ideally, I want to get married at some point but it’s almost 99.9% unlikely going to be to a westernized woman. You just have to look at most women’s comments and mentality when it comes to high profile divorces (Dr Dre for example).

There’s an idealistic view of weddings but not a realistic one of marriage. There’s hardly any stigma or shame when it comes to divorces. Now I’m not saying in other cultures, that women don’t divorce their husbands either but that truly is a last resort as they know being a divorcee puts an asterisk next to their name.

A lot of women here have no shame and will initiate a divorce in a second, once they get bored or when marriage isn’t what it cracks up to be. At least for the most part, men will try and make it work. More so because they have more to lose.
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Lol you are basing that on what? Actually the person who is committed to the relationship will try to make it work that could be men or women.
Too many relationship on Iyanla where women been begging their husbands to go to therapy to make this claim that more men want to make it work than women.

So therefore, if you go into the relationship with that attitude ya none of your relationships are going to work.

Most relationships fail due to infidelity and financial difficulties not because of boredom
 
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The site has to stop believing that the person who doesn’t initiate the divorce is the one that is the most committed.
There are a lot of men who don’t want to initiate divorce but want out of relationship.
Again coli being disingenuous.
 
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A lot of people are misunderstanding GMB.

Marriage is a legal contract. One in which a bad actor can take advantage of e.g. blac Chyna, the people from the 90 day fiancee extended universe, countless NBA and NFL ex wives etc. Men are often targets of financial and emotional abuse, but because our society assumes men have limitless privilege and are predatory, there is no sympathy for these men in the same way there is for women who are taken advantage of.

You can have a long fulfilling relationship and raise children without ever getting the courts involved through marriage. Again, marriage is a LEGAL arrangement. Men who are clowned/sympathized with through the GMB tag are men who didnt take it slow enough and get to know the woman they were with. They allowed themselves to be pressured into marriage or otherwise bought into the fantasy that it is something you need to do to be a complete and happy human being.

Women and men fall into all sorts of traps because they look at another person as "what can I get out of them?" Whether its men who desire sex and basically a maid and a cook who will never question them or constructively criticize them or voice their pain. Or women who want a tall baller who she can impress her friends and family with by constantly bringing up his status and looks, and garner countless social media props and overall attention.

That selfish motivation is what leads into disaster.
 
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Scustin Bieburr said:
A lot of people are misunderstanding GMB.

Marriage is a legal contract. One in which a bad actor can take advantage of e.g. blac Chyna, the people from the 90 day fiancee extended universe, countless NBA and NFL ex wives etc. Men are often targets of financial and emotional abuse, but because our society assumes men have limitless privilege and are predatory, there is no sympathy for these men in the same way there is for women who are taken advantage of.

You can have a long fulfilling relationship and raise children without ever getting the courts involved through marriage. Again, marriage is a LEGAL arrangement. Men who are clowned/sympathized with through the GMB tag are men who didnt take it slow enough and get to know the woman they were with. They allowed themselves to be pressured into marriage or otherwise bought into the fantasy that it is something you need to do to be a complete and happy human being.

Women and men fall into all sorts of traps because they look at another person as "what can I get out of them?" Whether its men who desire sex and basically a maid and a cook who will never question them or constructively criticize them or voice their pain. Or women who want a tall baller who she can impress her friends and family with by constantly bringing up his status and looks, and garner countless social media props and overall attention.

That selfish motivation is what leads into disaster.
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Thanks, I think the myth is GMB is a misogynistic group which is not the case
 
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