The whole GMB thing is ridiculous

[MaxPain]

On a serious note

Go find marriage minded people and build

Why do y’all worry about dudes who don’t wanna get married instead of dropping game to the dudes who do

That would make more sense

 

[NinoBrown]

It's anti family and Low key

Unrealistic and unhealthy


This kind of thinking needs to go away.

Sounds like a simp train of thought....marry a woman... Lose half your assets on a whim...

 

[Youseenmywork]

In before black women come in and say " black men and white men had a patriarchy and it was evil and y'all had y'all foot on our neck and oppressed us that is way feminism is so strong today...your grandfather and fathers should have oppressed black women "




Even thoe the " black community" is matriarchal and ran by women which is the reason it's in the shape that it's In ....women not giving up that power that they got once your father's and grandfather's went off to war .

 

[Mrhateeverything]

On a serious note

Go find marriage minded people and build

Why do y’all worry about dudes who don’t wanna get married instead of dropping game to the dudes who do

That would make more sense

true.
Why do people care so much about how other people live. Not everyone has to live the same lives. Long as you aint hurting anybody , let people live life how they want to live.
Im gmb but if you want to get married i dont care. I wish you well.

 

[ThaEruditious]

true.
Why do people care so much about how other people live. Not everyone has to live the same lives. Long as you aint hurting anybody , let people live life how they want to live.
Im gmb but if you want to get married i dont care. I wish you well.

This. Just don't switch sides crying when GMB adds another tally to its unceasing scorecard...

 

[the bossman]

One, fukk you. We not cool enough for momma jokes.

my bad breh. just jokes

Two, my issues are about black pathology like white, asians and latinos don't have single parent household.

90% of issues linked to single mothers are associated more strongly with poverty and lack social capital.

If "not married" = broken home

I disagree, but, I not here to argue with your opinion.

Edit; most non married black men are in their children's lives and coparent. Much more than any race might i add.

Why is that single mom more likely to be in poverty? don't you think single mothers tend to fall into poverty more than married mothers? That's the point of marriage serving as a stable foundation for the family. a 2-parent household always stands a better chance of stable environment for a kid. not just financially, but emotionally, and psychologically as well.

And nobody here is pushing that tired false stereotype of black fathers not being involved with their kids.

If you not interested in kids then get off the internet and go slay these foreign broads. but if you know you plan to have a family one day I just don't see how you can be against marriage

 

[semicko82]

On a serious note

Go find marriage minded people and build

Why do y’all worry about dudes who don’t wanna get married instead of dropping game to the dudes who do

That would make more sense

This

 

[Youseenmywork]

Very people get that when you a young man and you have had home trainning and then you got to school and everybody there is females and it is female dominated so bout time you graduate you know how to put a women on a pedestal . You don't know how to put yourself on a pedestal which cause self esteem problems . You know more about women than women know about masculinity . Ask the average women on the form "what is masculinity " watch all the answers you get . Ask women on this very form about male reproductive health and watch what answers you get . I don't learn the truth about male reproductive health until I researched it own my own ...cause even school sex ed class focuses mostly on women .

 

[Youseenmywork]

Let's this covid-19 she get bad again and they shut this shyt down ....watch the calls and text messages some of y'all will get

 

[the bossman]

Let's this covid-19 she get bad again and they shut this shyt down ....watch the calls and text messages some of y'all will get

bytches from way back came out the woodwork in March.

I was like damn. shyt must got real bad if you reachin back out to a nikka like me that did you dirty

 

[Youseenmywork]

In before somebody say " y'all must hate your mother's " and the famous " you known you have a black mother right " and the world renowned comment of " Who hurt you ?"

 

[Youseenmywork]

bytches from way back came out the woodwork in March.

I was like damn. shyt must got real bad if you reachin back out to a nikka like me that did you dirty

 

[UpAndComing]

#GMB isn't about the beginning of the relationship, it's about the end

 

[Youseenmywork]

I'm before a women's says " I wish it was more men like my father "

 

[southern.girl]

Ideally, I want to get married at some point but it’s almost 99.9% unlikely going to be to a westernized woman. You just have to look at most women’s comments and mentality when it comes to high profile divorces (Dr Dre for example).

It’s always so weird when I read opinions like the bolded. Unless you are Caribbean or directly from the continent yourself, you were raised in the same Western society that created black women. Which more than likely means that you picked up similar, possibly problematic, western ideas as well.

As an example, going dutch, seems to be a westernized practice that you guys don’t seem to mind at all.

I don’t follow you, so I don’t know if this comment applies directly to you. But generally speaking, a lot of men on this site want traditional women but they are not traditional men.