mbewane
Knicks: 93 til infinity
Obviously how can it be "just a word", and then some are offended if non-black people use it? There's got to be some kind of contradiction there, or else you mean it's just a word among black people, and then it becomes strange that you/we refuse to let others used it based on their color...but are ok to use it amongst ourselves for that same reason. and that's not even the case, because you wouldn't use "n***a" in certain contexts with other black people, even though "it's just a word".
And how many other cultures have words that they say is ok for them to use, but not for others? I can't think of one (it might exist though). Do Chinese people call themselves "c***ks"? Do Italians call themselves "w*ps"? I've travelled a bit and I've never heard something similar among other minorities. I might hear arab people call themselves the derogatory french term, but that's almost only when one is making a joke specifically about race, not on some everyday "what up my n***a" to say hi.
But obviously it's much more than a word, term of endearment, "real recognize real" and all that...but one must wonder why is precisely THAT word that has been chosen? Why not "brother", "homie", "my man" etc. Not "strong" enough? But then what makes "n***a" strong, is it not...the fact that it was used by whites to insult black men? So in a sense, is using "n***a" not, again, using the white man's "weapon" instead of creating/using a term of endearment that would come from within the black community? I can understand the logic: making something positive out of something negative, but the point is, it's not really positive since we refrain from using it in certain contexts and don't allow others to use. This thread wouldn't exist if it was "just a word" and all good...So somewhere, we know that even us using it is not really a positive...
And how many other cultures have words that they say is ok for them to use, but not for others? I can't think of one (it might exist though). Do Chinese people call themselves "c***ks"? Do Italians call themselves "w*ps"? I've travelled a bit and I've never heard something similar among other minorities. I might hear arab people call themselves the derogatory french term, but that's almost only when one is making a joke specifically about race, not on some everyday "what up my n***a" to say hi.
But obviously it's much more than a word, term of endearment, "real recognize real" and all that...but one must wonder why is precisely THAT word that has been chosen? Why not "brother", "homie", "my man" etc. Not "strong" enough? But then what makes "n***a" strong, is it not...the fact that it was used by whites to insult black men? So in a sense, is using "n***a" not, again, using the white man's "weapon" instead of creating/using a term of endearment that would come from within the black community? I can understand the logic: making something positive out of something negative, but the point is, it's not really positive since we refrain from using it in certain contexts and don't allow others to use. This thread wouldn't exist if it was "just a word" and all good...So somewhere, we know that even us using it is not really a positive...