My brief review. First minor spoilers. And no, I'm not spoiler tagging it, so be forewarned.
Overall: Strictly performance wise, it's all good acting. But the ending sucked to me. Didn't do research. I only saw it because I knew it would be Oscar/Gold Globe nom. First, I had no idea the main character wasn't from Harlem. And they make that quite clear in the first 5 minutes
The 'genda is pushed hard in this movie (pause.) And reading up on the writer. He comes from Idaho and from a evangelical family. Then came out. So alot of this movie is the typical, the church don't accept gays (just saw this same thing yesterday in Best Man, last chapters). But outside of that, Fraiser did a good job painting him as a sympathetic, hopeless, character. His daughter, Ellie, aka Max from Stranger Things, kills this. Not sure if she's nominated for anything but she should.
At times Brendan gets annoying with his crying. But with his daughter, she conveyed her pain well. Other characters like his friend, Liz, who takes care him does a good job as well. As well as a Christian missionary in whom he interacts with.
The movie does a good unraveling the mysteries of why he is the way he is. The relationship with his daughter, etc. It's also good at making it plain to see how disgusted people are at his fat appearance, how he's disgusted at his appearance. And I suspect it's also a metaphor at the way some treat gay people as well.
Now, the negatives. His fat suit, cgi, or whatever it is, sucks. It's so low budget looking where it takes away from the film to me. The ending of this film is abrupt. It ends like "That's it? Are yall serious" And as I said earlier, the 'genda. It's just so obvious and redundant in films now. We get it. You hate the church because you feel the church hates you.
But again, good performances but a decent movie. But that ending could be why it's low on RT.