ur saying if she's bringing more to the table than myself she wont respect my hustle? We are pretty even on things. Both home owners and professionals. I only have one kid but she has 3. She's divorced from a dude with paper who takes care of his parental responsibility. So, in ur opinion are woman with kids problematic because they want a father figure or captin save a ho? Elaborate on the calculus for getting at chics with no kids. Actually, my current girl (age 29)has no kids but she wants some plus marriage and all that. So, im doing a little cost / benefit analysis of both scenarios and would appreciate some game. The older chic knows about my current girl and nothing has jumped off yet between us other than good conversation.
Not exactly. Again, this isnt a hard fast rule of any sorts and all situations are different but for some reason black women who make more money than their dudes usually come with the disrespect after a while. To lead someone you have to have several things in your character and you may have all those things plus...but statistically our women equate the power in the household with the income. Look around at how they have torn the black family apart by giving the female more opportunity, more benefits and programs...black women have been shytting on black men on this tip for the last 10 years pimp.
Here's some familair 25-40 black chic rhetoric:
- He's intimidated by my success
- There are more of us graduating because our men aren't as smart
- What can he do for me that I cannot do for myself
- I'm accustomed to a certain lifestyle
How are you gonna lead that?
Bro, these females really have been endoctrinated into thinking they are your superiors. They get all the management and gatekeeper gigs for a reason.
They are single for good reason my dude.
Sounds like you either found a good one OR you are still seeing her "representative" self...the real one will show up shortly.
These are good accurate points, unfortunately.
In fact, I have to say that this is so accurate in the GAME and the women I have been pulling lately it is haunting. Here are some points:
-they ALL have been this age range, although closer to 30 than 40
-they ALL claim to to have been "single" forever, or just plain ol' "too long"
-Most, if not all, of them talk about how they have dated the "thugs", "pretty boys", "players/dudes who had other girls" or the superficial likenesses of these when they were younger, and now they are "tired of dealing with the same men, tired of the games, ready to settle down, etc".
-ALL of them have some type of degree, at least a bachelors(a couple had a Masters), own place, car, etc. and APPEARS established.
-NONE if them can really figure out why they are single.
-Most of them "aren't getting any younger", so we all know what that means, lol
While a few of them "looked good on paper", we just have not had the chemistry or have not been able to keep it.
Now don't get me wrong, they have had no problem giving in sexually, and had been rather quick about it too. This is despite the "I want to get to know you first" rhetoric I hear like clockwork. So no problems there.
But I JUST can't get over the "hump" of wanting to commit to a serious relationship. I was close to considering one, but the heavy weed consumption has taken it's toll and wasn't working for me.
Like I said, so accurate it's scary.
