Correct. Process of elimination.You're moving the goal post once again.
First I'm not "trying to change my appearance"
Even dapping the idea that I'm going to come with excuses as to why I haven't tried to change my appearance.
I show proof I have.
And now it's my "personality".
You said previously it was your looks. Now I see that you look fine so obviously there is something holding you back that has nothing to do with looks...which is more than like your personality