The percentage of men between ages 18-30 with zero sex partners tripled from 08-18

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Which is it Men are entitled to a dime or men need to work very hard on themselves and lower the expectations?

Because this whole incel shyt gets started because nikkas sit on their couches playing video games and eating doritos feel that they deserve a dime because they happen to have a job and above a 450 credit score.

Huh? When did I ever say men are entitled to anything?

 

[Mandarin Duck]

Address what posts?

I'm not picking on you. You said you aren't interested in trying to appeal to the opposite sex so then whatever the outcome is then that's what it is. Can't feel bad for someone who doesn't try

You're not "picking" on me.

I've had enough of that from women growing up irl so I don't see a woman giving her version of "advice" online as picking on me.

I've reiterated my efforts more than enough on here and said I accept the consequences of not trying anymore yet yall still feel the need to say "have you at least tried changing your appearance?"

Here are my efforts at "trying".
I'm not a liar and I provide facts with everything I say.
https://www.thecoli.com/threads/undead-bans-before-and-after-thread.834238/

And once again, I don't have a sense of entitlement and do not believe that grants me access to women.

 

[skylove4]

Which is it Men are entitled to a dime or men need to work very hard on themselves and lower the expectations?

Because this whole incel shyt gets started because nikkas sit on their couches playing video games and eating doritos feel that they deserve a dime because they happen to have a job and above a 450 credit score.

It totally depends on the person. Somethings will be easy and given to some, others have to work their ass off.

That’s just life and before a short or fat nikka says that ain’t fair, tell that to a handicapped or deformed person.

 

[Wiseborn]

Huh? When did I ever say men are entitled to anything?

What I'm saying is that women kind of talk out of both sides of their mouths on this issue. There's a breh on this forum that works at a Pizza shop, in his 30's and a virgin. I think duke still lives at home. Do you think a dude like that can get a girl? I'm not saying that he can't or won't but if dude's a virgin than no one has "seen his heart" or whatever.

My point is that there's a floor for men and there always has been. The issue is in the past dudes died early and chicks couldn't even pretend that they didn't need not only a man but that man's whole family and networks. Welfare, Afffirmative action and Safety features have exposed that floor for dudes.

 

[Wiseborn]

You're not "picking" on me.

I've had enough of that from women growing up irl so I don't see a woman giving her version of "advice" online as picking on me.

I've reiterated my efforts more than enough on here and said I accept the consequences of not trying anymore yet yall still feel the need to say "have you at least tried changing your appearance?"

Here are my efforts at "trying".
I'm not a liar and I provide facts with everything I say.
https://www.thecoli.com/threads/undead-bans-before-and-after-thread.834238/

And once again, I don't have a sense of entitlement and do not believe that grants me access to women.

I don't know you and I haven't clicked on your thread but the fact that you understand your situation makes a lot of sense.

What do you do for fun?

 

[Wiseborn]

It totally depends on the person

That's the point. Some dudes won't get chose it is what it is. That's how humans are designed, We can tournament maters just like Rams who butt their heads against each other.

 

[Mandarin Duck]

I don't know you and I haven't clicked on your thread but the fact that you understand your situation makes a lot of sense.

What do you do for fun?

I read books, make music, watch YouTube videos, watch movies, and listen to podcasts.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

What I'm saying is that women kind of talk out of both sides of their mouths on this issue. There's a breh on this forum that works at a Pizza shop, in his 30's and a virgin. I think duke still lives at home. Do you think a dude like that can get a girl? I'm not saying that he can't or won't but if dude's a virgin than no one has "seen his heart" or whatever.

My point is that there's a floor for men and there always has been. The issue is in the past dudes died early and chicks couldn't even pretend that they didn't need not only a man but that man's whole family and networks. Welfare, Afffirmative action and Safety features have exposed that floor for dudes.

I think you're projecting and making assumptions. I didn't say all that nor imply it.

 

[Bossino]

It's not just sex though is it. Like it's not just money either.

Human beings are social creatures. We crave and damn near need love and intimacy. The people you will kill for were there for you at your lowest and you share your highs with them. As an adult hetero male, while you have friends and family you yearn for that intimacy with a woman. At some point in time, most men want to invest this emotional load into a woman or at the very least commit to having a child with her (and the raising of it). If you are 30 years old and have little prospects of neither.... and you can't even fulfil your carnal urges... what do you have in life? If you can't even get laid it says everything about your social position in society. Even if you're high earning, if you can't convert that to genuine female companionship (even if just casual), clearly you're not winning the life thing.

Forget destroying civilisations. It's a recorded fact in the western world that single men 30+ are more dangerous. They take higher risks, get into more violent situations and if that persists - likely to die earlier. It's true of men that have been divorced. Indicating it's not the personality types of being single... it's the being single that makes you more reckless. When you have a woman at home you behave more sensibly because you know you need to be in good health for her.

That's why the escort thing doesn't really help and young people aren't seeking it. It's not just the sex.

A lot of young people lack social skills and have unrealistic expectations about life. Men and women. And that's a big problem.

You putting a lot on @Undead Ban without knowing breh personally. You slick one them types that thinks there's one way to live life and living differently is automatically wrong. Lowkey this is what cacs do to black folk, and religious folk do to atheists. Overlooking the flaws in your conjecture, it's mad condescending when people pot like this, no offense.

Because low key, dudes are lowering their standards and smashing somebody like her. The same goes for the big girls.

This is true but couldn't be me quality over quantity gang. Dudes wanna do whatever for box without realizing that worsens this divide. It is what it is

 

[skylove4]

That's the point. Some dudes won't get chose it is what it is. That's how humans are designed, We can tournament maters just like Rams who butt their heads against each other.

No everybody can get somebody. It might not be who you think you deserve or who you find heart stoping sexy, but they’re thousands of other humans that will enter into a relationship with even the ugliest person.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

You're not "picking" on me.

I've had enough of that from women growing up irl so I don't see a woman giving her version of "advice" online as picking on me.

I've reiterated my efforts more than enough on here and said I accept the consequences of not trying anymore yet yall still feel the need to say "have you at least tried changing your appearance?"

Here are my efforts at "trying".
I'm not a liar and I provide facts with everything I say.
https://www.thecoli.com/threads/undead-bans-before-and-after-thread.834238/

And once again, I don't have a sense of entitlement and do not believe that grants me access to women.

It's your personality.



You look fine. Nothing wrong with your physical appearance. Plenty of women would love to have a man with your body so it must be something else. I am guessing it's your personality. You being unwilling to talk to women in person speaks volumes.

 

[Wiseborn]

I think you're projecting and making assumptions. I didn't say all that nor imply it.

Well where do you fall at on the self improvement/ no hope for some scale. Remember you're on the Coli so you see what some dude's thinking and personalities are?

Do you think nikkas that look like Jabba the Hutt (and I met a dude who looked like that) can hit the gym and get a haircut and win?

 

[Wiseborn]

No everybody can get somebody. It might not be who you think you deserve or who you find heart stoping sexy, but they’re thousands of other humans that will enter into a relationship with even the ugliest person.

I disagree and the chart kinda proves it.


That doesn't mean that brehs can't fix themselves and their thinking to get a girl, but what I'm saying is that there's a floor for looks and if you don't meet it and you don't have money or status than those dudes are fukked.

 

[Mandarin Duck]

It's your personality.



You look fine. Nothing wrong with your physical appearance. Plenty of women would love to have a man with your body so it must be something else. I am guessing it's your personality. You being unwilling to talk to women in person speaks volumes.

You're moving the goal post once again.

First I'm not "trying to change my appearance"

Even dapping the idea that I'm going to come with excuses as to why I haven't tried to change my appearance.

I show proof I have.

And now it's my "personality".

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Well where do you fall at on the self improvement/ no hope for some scale. Remember you're on the Coli so you see what some dude's thinking and personalities are?

Do you think nikkas that look like Jabba the Hutt (and I met a dude who looked like that) can hit the gym and get a haircut and win?

I am team self improvement

I think any positive attribute you can enhance will ultimately improve you. But everyone has different strengths and most successful men play up at least one strength.

The more strengths you aquire the more successful you will be.