Child_Of_God
Love is a long road.
Yeah.
The percentage of men between ages 18-30 with zero sex partners tripled from 08-18
- Thread starter Elim Garak
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Yeah.
What do you do for a living?
I only ask because some occupations help with social anxiety. Self-esteem issues can get muddy in short gang. So try to focus on what you do well. You have any hobbies?
I’m 28 and I am short, average looking and have social anxiety. It’s really tough out here for me.
Awww man, the social anxiety....like you can't be around a bunch of people or you just can't speak to women?
Child_Of_God
Love is a long road.
Both and most girls are really in to tall dudes so I figure why bother approaching them if I’m going to get constantly rejected for something that’s out of my control.
Child_Of_God
Love is a long road.
I have two jobs. I work in IT and I also work for Amazon. I like to travel, go biking, make music and play video games.
Yea I feel you man. I'm glad you go the gym. working out can help with your confidence and it will make you look better so that's a startBoth and most girls are really in to tall dudes so I figure why bother approaching them if I’m going to get constantly rejected for something that’s out of my control.
Dwayne_Taylor
Superstar
They also fukk chickens and rape little boys in those countries because can't get p*ssy
Most girls aren't really that picky in relation to height most women who say that also aren't women you want to be with anyway.Both and most girls are really in to tall dudes so I figure why bother approaching them if I’m going to get constantly rejected for something that’s out of my control.
Bumblebreh
Collecting honey and money
You really think so breh?
If we were to look at the simple economics of supply vs demand. There is clearly not enough "desirable" men to go around, so the access point becomes limited. And even restricted. Social media skews things.So if we were to look at mbj.He must have millions of followers,mainly women but over 90 percent are pretty much invisible. The top 20 percent of men who are currently single are not rushing to get married.
And people do not have the same dating options.Most of the chicks in your area are not going to get the top tier ballers.
yeah....no.
I think it's far more likely and more simple and explanation that social media just broadened peoples social circles.
Then some overarching global shortage of desirable men on level we have never seen due some unexplainable and random shift in psychology that somehow is effecting the sex drive of every male and female in a specific generation regardless of region or demographic.
Both and most girls are really in to tall dudes so I figure why bother approaching them if I’m going to get constantly rejected for something that’s out of my control.
Well as a fellow short breh (I'm 5'8), here is something I want you to try in the near future. Hit up a homeboy that's, find a local social spot you're comfortable with (Like a BWW), and go there to just talk to women you're not really attracted to...that's it. Don't think about asking for a number or anything else. Just focus on having good convo and a good time.
But gonna be honest; you're eventually will need to be either involved in groups like your university's alumni chapter or able to go to places like Park & 14th if you want somewhat of a decent variety.
Bumblebreh
Collecting honey and money
yeah....no.
I think it's far more likely and more simple and explanation that social media just broadened peoples social circles.
Then some overarching global shortage of desirable men on level we have never seen due some unexplainable and random shift in psychology that somehow is effecting the sex drive of every male and female in a specific generation regardless of region or demographic.
Err yes.
You assume that just because a woman follows a baller,she somewhat has instant access when she is just another follower. Most top tier dudes are smashing chicks that they will most likely see in person. If the baller does not slide into her dms,she is not going to have access to him as she can easily become invisible.
reaching
I'm not talking about following some celebrity on instagram that lives in LA while you in wisconsin. I mean literally local and friends of friends. People you can actually meet. You have a literally social network in your entire zip code now, when in my day you pretty much dated just your classmates and neighborhood friends that you hung out around. Thats the difference in having 20 guys to chose from verse 300. where is this not seeing them in person shyt coming from, how else is she gonna smash?
If you have severe anxiety, you should work on yourself first, make sure you see a therapist and make sure your dosage is right.
You should start slow, just say hi to girl (start from here)
Get comfortable saying hi to people
The more you do this, the less anxious you become.
Start with just saying "hi".
IF you can't even do this, what is the point of cold approach etc.
What books would you recommend that talk about conquerors and explorers going to distant lands just to slay new p*ssy??