The percentage of men between ages 18-30 with zero sex partners tripled from 08-18

[Blackrogue]

I live 10 minutes away from a beach that's popular with babes but I have severe anxiety. How can I cold approach without looking creepy?

If you don't cold approach.. you won't build your reps. Do it only for the reps and not to get the girls. And it's just making friends. Imagine if you online all the time and only cold approach once a month. Ten years that's 120 people. If you did four a day and had the references you'd have the same experience and references you'd have in ten years in one month.

Think about it that way. If you don't want to be creepy hide your hand and intention. Which will be easy cause the goal isn't to smash but to use them to educate you. Soon it'll be comedy because it'll be an interesting story cause you want to see the outcome. And some situations you'll deliberately fukk with just to see what happens when you reality testing.

Many things don't come across when hitting on people online vs just meeting someone in person and triangle staring at her eyes and mouth, having that energy and swag she can feel which you might be deliberately projecting knowing she's watching and doesn't think you are clever enough to know and are manipulating how she views you by pretending you didn't even know so she thinks what she saw is real. And sometimes it is real.

Things being reduced to swipe left or right has no nuance and fun to it.

 

[Blackrogue]

Bruh doesn't realize when you have multiple options and a chick acts up you could just give her the and keep it moving without her. I've shed so many women I'm not even proud of it anymore. I run into a fine thotty, I'm intrigued. I get the box and also realize she's not trustworthy so don't commit. Things fall apart and I don't feel like explaining.

 

[Mike809]

I take medication for it and I have regular meetings with my therapist but when it comes to women it's like everything I learned to mitigate my anxiety goes out the window.

You dont have to come up with clever pick up lines. Maybe compliment her on what's she's wearing or just a simple question like how's her day going ?

Maybe she's there for spring break since it's a popular beach so you can ask her that. A lot of posters here make women sound like monsters but if you approach them in a normal way ... the worse thing they will say it's no.

Try to learn how to read a person's vibe so if you are actually creeping her out , you can cut off the conversation and move on.

At the end of the day , just remember it's one of many interactions you'll have .. so don't let one rejection ruin your day.

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

We need to talk about why ugly bytches feel this confident to interject



And nobody called her ugly yet?!?!?!

If that was a man...

 

[Blackrogue]

Ok I understood what some people are looking for and they are absolutely right in taking their time to find someone to build with.

I went through that and was like fukk it. I'm looking for the one to build with. But if she don't show up soon I'm trying to get at this bad bytch


Still looking for her so I can stop all this serial dirty dogging

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

So, you can become wheelchair bound every time you drive a car too

get your dry dikk ass out there and have some fun

 

[Neuromancer]

I take medication for it and I have regular meetings with my therapist but when it comes to women it's like everything I learned to mitigate my anxiety goes out the window.

Do you try affirmations ? What do you enjoy? You should keep yourself reminded of that. Do you practice diaphragmatic breathing? Deep inhalations?

 

[semicko82]

Man I've seen this more times than I can count.

If you go out to the burbs of DFW, chunky white broads tend to match up with similar men.

In Dallas proper, I've seen so many chunky (bigger than thick but not quite fat) 5'1" white girls with 6'3" Brad or Chad. She's so fukking happy to have a tall white boy these broads be hanging off these dudes like a koala on a tree. Brad/Chad always has that dazed look like he can't figure out how the fukk he ended up in his current situation. She probably polished his knob like a champ and he got hooked.

Usually the woman gained happy weight once they got dude in a relationship.
I notice women of all races and ethnicities say they want a tall white boy. I guess they’re the prize

 

[Neuromancer]

Watch this and then get back to me.

 

[Mandarin Duck]

Why don't you put in an effort to be more attractive?

Because I put my effort into being healthier for myself and nobody else.

"Looking" more attractive is meaningless imo.

I take care of myself.
Eat right, workout, care about my appearance. All that.

But my motivation is not to be more attractive. That's ridiculously shallow and is for other people.

 

[Neuromancer]

Because I put my effort into being healthier for myself and nobody else.

"Looking" more attractive is meaningless imo.

I take care of myself.
Eat right, workout, care about my appearance. All that.

But my motivation is not to be more attractive. That's ridiculously shallow and is for other people.

You should read Stocisim.

 

[Mandarin Duck]

It's not just sex though is it. Like it's not just money either.

Human beings are social creatures. We crave and damn near need love and intimacy. The people you will kill for were there for you at your lowest and you share your highs with them. As an adult hetero male, while you have friends and family you yearn for that intimacy with a woman. At some point in time, most men want to invest this emotional load into a woman or at the very least commit to having a child with her (and the raising of it). If you are 30 years old and have little prospects of neither.... and you can't even fulfil your carnal urges... what do you have in life? If you can't even get laid it says everything about your social position in society. Even if you're high earning, if you can't convert that to genuine female companionship (even if just casual), clearly you're not winning the life thing.

Forget destroying civilisations. It's a recorded fact in the western world that single men 30+ are more dangerous. They take higher risks, get into more violent situations and if that persists - likely to die earlier. It's true of men that have been divorced. Indicating it's not the personality types of being single... it's the being single that makes you more reckless. When you have a woman at home you behave more sensibly because you know you need to be in good health for her.

That's why the escort thing doesn't really help and young people aren't seeking it. It's not just the sex.


A lot of young people lack social skills and have unrealistic expectations about life. Men and women. And that's a big problem.

My expectations are realistic.

Take care of my family that needs me, focus on my career and my health.

All of which I currently do.

And I'm not a fan of labeling someone who's 30+ and single a threat to society.

That's prejudice.

If I listen to you and many others in this thread I'm going to start killing people if I don't have a wife?

That sounds a hell of a lot more like an unrealistic expectation than anything I've seen in this entire thread.

 

[Mandarin Duck]

Breh I’m with u in a lot of things you’re saying but you got this all wrong

No one is saying not getting p*ssy is a threat to civilization, they’re saying men who don’t get p*ssy will get frustrated with civilization and try to overthrow it

I'm not concerned with overthrowing civilization because the girl I asked out said no.

That literally sounds absurd.

 

[Neuromancer]

I'm not concerned with overthrowing civilization because the girl I asked out said no.

That literally sounds absurd.

All men thirty plus are a monolith don't you know?

 

[Consigliere]

Fear seems to be the biggest issue.
It’s jumping out all over this thread.