Something else to consider:
The grass isn't always greener on the other side:
For those men who do obtain women easily comes with a whole other set of problems:
- Entrapment
- Extortion
- Being setup for a robbery (or worse)
- Being robbed
- Pregnancy scares
- Psycho women
- False rape accusations
- Targeting by jealous boyfriends or husbands
- Baby mama drama
- Child support
... et al.
Not only that, those men take L's too (Some may argue they take more ...). Some high profile cases are Wil Smith, Brad Pitt, Dr. Dre, Quavo, et al. Men like the aforementioned, their L's are broadcast on front street .....
I, personally, wouldn't focus so much on if you obtain women easily or not, but in getting one's finances in order, living life on your terms, and having peace of mind. The women will be there (... and the ensuing challenges in dealing with them).