I agree.
...but ponder this: what happens when they come too late?
The numbers were seeing seem to show that is what may be what’s happening.
I think that’s the question that will be answered in time...
This is precisely why I have a set deadline, and every chick I've come across I had a convo about hates it, because if there are no safety nets/cleanup dudes it puts pressure on broads to look for something serious sooner, and they don't want to do that without some fun, or aiming for the stars before realizing they'll never get past clouds. I'm an outlier, but I will say more and more dudes are getting to my mindset/realization that if she probably wouldn't fukk you from 18-25, it's probably a bad shake for you to date her 26-35. It will inevitably be more about her seeing an impending wall and you situation now being acceptable (finances, etc.) when it previously wasn't.
I wonder if average men and average women will start to pull back, invest in one another, build each other up, and be willing to partner up with each other financially to build their own family units. Away from IG, internet, echo chambers, porn, Twitter, excuses. That’s the only way this is going to work.
This would require people to not care about the opinions of others/not allow the masses to influence them and the vast majority ain't built like that, hence the term "the masses". To your earlier point it's not finances it's the expectation of them. I'll go two/three weeks without talking to women my age, because hearing the term "broke boy" IRL is always cringe when it's coming out of the mouth of a woman who'll fukk for weed and shopping money and lives at home with her parents, and no prospects or a useless degree, or a good degree and crazy debt. Like imo it's borderline insanity or flat out sociopathy for broads to shyt on dudes with equal or slightly better finances because they don't have beaucoup bucks. That shyt happens though. Being broke doesn't make you fat, ugly or permanently broke/unable to advance with time especially in formative years (18-25). But there are standards more prevalent with women predicated on finances. I don't approach IRL, bc I know I currently can't close as I'm with my parents. I move out in the fall but I know won't cold approach more with a place, because I just don't believe in gratifying random broads like that anymore. I'm just gonna finish working on my body in the spring/summer, get nice professional picks and use apps that can get me easy sex, and a few dating apps to develop a fwb roster. Unless, the woman captures my attention in a fashion (usually impossible unless she's shown wit, intelligence, good music taste, etc. Looks alone don't move anymore), only way I'm talking to a woman irl from scratch (not a fellow student, or a person who frequents one of spots hang that is cordial) is if she sends choosing signs