Exactly. This is how we pass on GENERATIONAL CURSES.Parents talk about shyt with their kids all the time
Expecting your child's mother to hide the fact that you used to beat her ass is crazy
Dudes just don't want to own up to it
Now I know Joe was out here giving women lefts and rights
All the unhealthy thought processes and actions that brought you to the trauma are things you will inadvertently teach your children, and things that will lead them to similar outcomes.
Live an honorable life and do your best to surround yourself with good people to cut down on the BS, and keep it real with your kids when shyt happens.
Protecting people who touch kids, beat wives, have 2nd families in another city, giving kids away for adoption and not telling people they have siblings, finding out your aunt is actually your mom, etc.
All sorts of wild shyt gets hidden and you wonder why people crazy. Those family secrets are a bytch.