thanks breh, the red dot is the he508t, i like it more than the rmr. the 2 moa dot is nice for precision shooting and the 32 moa gets you on paper real fast when you're switching between multiple targets. there's a new version that was supposed to come out but got delayed cause of the virus so i think you can get this specific dot for the low.
i don't live in the slave state of nyc no more so all my shyt is legal. shipped handguns have to go to someone with a federal firearms license, and they're not allowed to transfer it to ppl from out of state. as soon as an ffl sees your new york id, they're gonna call the atf on you. another hurdle for you is that most stores won't sell anything to new york, legal or not (like the parts you need to finish off a p80 glock), they just don't want the hassle or liability. i think the lowest effort route that doesn't involve a bunch of ppl straw purchasing for you is to buy a creality ender 3 and print out a glock but you're looking at a lot of jail time if you get caught with it. it's a tough situation for sure but i would do the same thing if i were in your shoes, it's better to be able to protect your family than not and the prohibitionist kuffar can go to hell if they don't like that.
i didn't wanna post this last thing in the main tlr thread but i found this pretty interesting about how gun culture has led to alt-righters and even white supremacists teaming up with black nationalists and the ppl protesting george floyd's death The Boogaloo Movement Is Not What You Think - bellingcat