The Nightly Show Panel - Black Women And Dating

[Blackout]

It's easy to be that when your men are traditional providers. AA women don't seem to be sharing that reality.

Well to fix that so we would need our community to rise up and support each other instead of accepting second class citizen status.

 

[Yup]

a panel on the supposed lack of availability of 'quality' black men, with only one black woman sensible and knowledgeable enough to cite the systematic forces contributing to the hindrances against black men. salute to her.... the phD was clearly the voice of reason among the chatter of birds. notice they tried to not acknowledge her opinion as well.

i'm college educated and doing well for myself-- i can tell you that if i come across a black woman who's so reductive and simple-minded to believe i'm some sort of anomaly or special negro (same thing white people do), she's going to the bushes in record time. these birds gonna learn... notice only one of them had a ring on their finger.

black men and women getting killed in the skreets by police like dogs and these birds are concerned about trent and skyler not liking them. let these girls go to the cacs, man, they beyond lost.

Honestly, I have never seen a group of BW where at least one person has not acknowledge the struggles that BM face but I see time and time again BM dismiss the struggles of BW as unimportant or non-existent. Personally, I understand that BM have it bad but I do not agree how some try to use it to excuse every negative behaviour they exhibit.

 

[bcrusaderw]

Like I said it'll be like the 90s again when they were complaining that we date out too much.

Nah, we're not spineless sissies when it comes to confronting European beauty standards and white people in general. That and we'll start picking up their light skin mixed daughters. Matter of fact they'll be doing us a favor.

You already do that now. Let's not act like this clip, or clips like it made it more prevalent.

 

[_Anghellic_]

Most mixed women of this generation have black fathers.

It doesn't matter I know a lot of mixed girls with black mothers who date nothing, but black men. Just browse St0rmFr0nt to see how often white genetics lose out on this situation.

 

[Yup]

Well to fix that so we would need our community to rise up and support each other instead of accepting second class citizen status.

In order to rise up, you need people willing to support one another. You need black families/positive black relationships.

 

[Medicate]

No one like to be looked down on, I think that if BM also acknowledge how they put down BW (in other ways) there will be more panel discussion.

True...So you can see that there is an obvious agenda to be had, by only always including just BW in these discussions if there is to be one as in this case and many others in the past, very few have an actual BM/BW outtake together, so that equal blame and equal resolutions can come forth.....

 

[HoloGraphic]

They bear out their frustrations (never said I agree with the method it is done) but I didn't get a sense that they were tying to throw bm under the bus, I got a sense they were venting out the frustrations of their realities. Have what they said not been said here? Have guys not said they think that women especially bw should kiss their feet for being educated/gainfully employed/etc...
So why is it an issue now that it is being said.

All men, more or less, think women should be kissing their feet. Just saying.

 

[Blackout]

In order to rise up, you need people willing to support one another. You need black families/positive black relationships.

True but encouraging each other to date out doesnt lead to that.

 

[Yup]

It doesn't matter I know a lot of mixed girls with black mothers who date nothing, but black men. Just browse St0rmFr0nt to see how often white genetics lose out on this situation.

You know lots vs the collective mixed women. The ones shown above are entertainers/sport personalities it isn't hard to find. I do not personally believe the dating patterns of mixed women product of BW/WM will disproportionately be dating black men; Some will, others won't.

 

[A1aaa]

Honestly, I have never seen a group of BW where at least one person has not acknowledge the struggles that BM face but I see time and time again BM dismiss the struggles of BW as unimportant or non-existent. Personally, I understand that BM have it bad but I do not agree how some try to use it to excuse every negative behaviour they exhibit.

Oh, right.

Any argument that doesn't acknowledge that the mud-slinging is from both black women and men is reductive, simple-minded and divisive.

There are black women deluded into praising white men and shaming black men, just as there are black men who praise becky at the expense of black women.

It shouldn't even be a point of contention that there are black men who defend the perceptions of sistas; but perhaps you're seeing the issue via a particular lens?

 

[Yup]

True but encouraging each other to date out doesnt lead to that.

I understand but women who are constantly told that they don't measure to white/Hispanic/Asian women are not going to sit around to be berated constantly for the sake of black unity especially if the men are not equally as committed to it.

Frankly, BW have more been committed to 'black love' than black men have been and due to this they are being ridiculed for it whenever, they try to enforce it. BW should not guilt their own race men t date them...if some feel they have to do that than it is a big problem.

 

[HoloGraphic]

In order to rise up, you need people willing to support one another. You need black families/positive black relationships.

Hopefully this includes our gay and lesbian brothers and sisters.

True...So you can see that there is an obvious agenda to be had, by only always including just BW in these discussions if there is to be one as in this case and many others in the past, very few have an actual BM/BW outtake together, so that equal blame and equal resolutions can come forth.....

Forget "blame". You mean take responsibility.

The only people who complain about other people's "agendas" are people who don't have their own.

 

[_Anghellic_]

It's easy to be that when your men are traditional providers. AA women don't seem to be sharing that reality.

If they never got played by white women to join the "Feminist battle" and accepted welfare to replace the black man's income that wouldn't be a reality.

You already do that now. Let's not act like this clip, or clips like it made it more prevalent.

No, those "Black men ain't shyt" talk shows from the 70s and 80s that was spawned from black feminism is what started it. If black women never jumped out if the black power movement to join Becky and her "Feminism battle" and accepted welfare to replace the black man's income we wouldn't be dating out as much. Along with the 300+ year double standard of white men being able to fukk with our women, but we can't fukk with theirs.

In order to rise up, you need people willing to support one another. You need black families/positive black relationships.

That was thrown away for feminism and welfare

 

[Yup]

Oh, right.

Any argument that doesn't acknowledge that the mud-slinging is from both black women and men is reductive, simple-minded and divisive.

There are black women deluded into praising white men and shaming black men, just as there are black men who praise becky at the expense of black women.

It shouldn't even be a point of contention that there are black men who defend the perceptions of sistas; but perhaps you're seeing the issue via a particular lens?

Hence why I said, at least one. Even in LSA (which I visited recently) there always some posters defending bm. In real life, I see BW defending BM. Those that choose to date other/prefer other are still a minority much smaller than those of men.

 

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hmmmmm