The Nightly Show Panel - Black Women And Dating

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Which is what, according to you.

In how to choose the right men, rather than choosing one just because he is one. If more women followed their natural instincts, you wouldn't be choosing bad mates, but you all follow an artificial instinct that has been ingrained in you, so when it doesn't work time and time again, then we get the panels......:troll:
 

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They bear out their frustrations (never said I agree with the method it is done) but I didn't get a sense that they were tying to throw bm under the bus, I got a sense they were venting out the frustrations of their realities. Have what they said not been said here? Have guys not said they think that women especially bw should kiss their feet for being educated/gainfully employed/etc...
So why is it an issue now that it is being said.

:comeon: One of them chicks is dating a "young white man".
 

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They bear out their frustrations (never said I agree with the method it is done) but I didn't get a sense that they were tying to throw bm under the bus, I got a sense they were venting out the frustrations of their realities. Have what they said not been said here? Have guys not said they think that women especially bw should kiss their feet for being educated/gainfully employed/etc...
So why is it an issue now that it is being said.

Because it is being said in a roundtable discussion with only one voice and for the world to see and view Black women as somehow incompatible, and it is set up as if they are talking about just finding the cure for cancer........
 

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Like I said it'll be like the 90s again when they were complaining that we date out too much.

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but wouldn't u guys swirling free up cacs for the she-swirlers to date :patrice:and :russ: u think the christelyn karazins read bm swirl stats and get depressed? they use those to recruit more bw to swirl. like that travel video someone posted did
 

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Thats gonna make the black community look worse.

Female c00ns go hard.

If those women supported black women then obviously they would try to create one.

I really hate how these "panels" are set up and done as if they are discussing a cure for cancer or something really important, but in reality the problem they are discussing is something that Black men and Black women can handle on our own and between each other....not on nationally televised shows for the world to look at Black women as incompatible....its really a slap in the face......
 

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In how to choose the right men, rather than choosing one just because he is one. If more women followed their natural instincts, you wouldn't be choosing bad mates, but you all follow an artificial instinct that has been ingrained in you, so when it doesn't work time and time again, then we get the panels......:troll:

It's so easy to sit at a computer and berate women you never met or know nothing of their dating history. Yes, they probably have made mistakes and chosen bad partners...but if life was as easy as choosing the 'right person' the topics of relationships would not be discussed as much as it is.

What it seems to me is that AA women complaint of black men is they don't have a large enough pool of individuals that would be their equal within their social/professional circle. In the context of the US is that True or False that black women would have to date 'down' in terms of black professional women more so than other races of women?
 

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I really hate how these "panels" are set up and done as if they are discussing a cure for cancer or something really important, but in reality the problem they are discussing is something that Black men and Black women can handle on our own and between each other....not on nationally televised shows for the world to look at Black women as incompatible....its really a slap in the face......
It shows how reliant our people have been on white media. It poisons our people and make us all look like shyt yet our people still run to it like moths to a flame instead of working on black media so we can keep our issues within our community and not to be used against us by racist whites to make us look bad every step of the way and lead our people to destruction.
 

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I really hate how these "panels" are set up and done as if they are discussing a cure for cancer or something really important, but in reality the problem they are discussing is something that Black men and Black women can handle on our own and between each other....not on nationally televised shows for the world to look at Black women as incompatible....its really a slap in the face......
That I agree with...I never understood why black American issues are discussed for everyone to put their two cents. It is demeaning and honestly unproductive.
 

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It's so easy to sit at a computer and berate women you never met or know nothing of their dating history. Yes, they probably have made mistakes and chosen bad partners...but if life was as easy as choosing the 'right person' the topics of relationships would not be discussed as much as it is.
Oh it is that easy. Its just that many people refuse to take the easy option and instead hope for some random solution to appear out of nowhere.
 

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Because it is being said in a roundtable discussion with only one voice and for the world to see and view Black women as somehow incompatible, and it is set up as if they are talking about just finding the cure for cancer........

I don't disagree that the set up is unproductive. I can understand BM who disagree with the method in which it is done. What I don't understand is instead of guys on the coli stating that, they tend to try to mud sling and use that against BW instead of expressing themselves rationally.
 

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Oh it is that easy. Its just that many people refuse to take the easy option and instead hope for some random solution to appear out of nowhere.
Relationships are not easy, anymore than life is. It is true, that people can complicate things, but in the grand scheme of things it is not smooth sailing, so I disagree with your statement.
 
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