The Nightly Show Panel - Black Women And Dating

[KenyaDoll]

Or maybe there's something wrong with those women who insist on competing with each other for the most desired men and overlooking several eligible men in the process.

Is it ever women's fault?

I've already said maybe Jackie Reid is at fault if by now she hasn't found anyone. If you can't find a woman in a sea of women then it's probably YOUR fault. Maybe something is wrong with YOU and that's why multiple women (who are likely desperate for a man) don't want you.

 

[William F. Russell]

I've already said maybe Jackie Reid is at fault if by now she hasn't found anyone. If you can't find a woman in a sea of women then it's probably YOUR fault. Maybe something is wrong with YOU and that's why multiple women (who are likely desperate for a man) don't want you.

First, this isn't about me.

And number two, it's very possible that women getting degrees think too highly of themselves and compete with each other for the "best" men.

They feel that getting a guy in their program or on their level would be "settling". They will often try to go for either the best-looking/most established man or a man who's beneath them but is hyper-masculine/swagged out, and a bad boy. God forbid, however, you explain to women why overlooking "regular" guys (guys who are getting the same degrees as they are) do themselves a huge disservice because they're literally scrapping for the same minority of men. Women are the ones who choose men and the majority of women desire and choose the same kind of guy. And most of the times, that type of guy is in the heavy minority of the male population. Hence, despite women outnumbering men in grad school programs, the majority of those female grad students will either compete with each other for the same type of guy, hold out as a single woman and refuse to "settle" or date out. So guys who are having difficulty with women are justifiably dumbfounded and resentful. And they still have to put up with girls bytching about not finding a "good" man. Your claim that there's something wrong with black men who can't get black women in graduate school programs is absurdly incorrect and disingenuous.

This kind of fukkery by women happens ALL THE TIME on micro and macro levels in the real world. Graduate schools are not exempt environments.

 

[SouthernBelle]

First, this isn't about me.

And number two, it's very possible that women getting degrees think too highly of themselves and compete with each other for the "best" men.

They feel that getting a guy in their program or on their level would be "settling". They will often try to go for either the best-looking/most established man or a man who's beneath them but is hyper-masculine/swagged out, and a bad boy. God forbid, however, you explain to women why overlooking "regular" guys (guys who are getting the same degrees as they are) do themselves a huge disservice because they're literally scrapping for the same minority of men. Women are the ones who choose men and the majority of women desire and choose the same kind of guy. And most of the times, that type of guy is in the heavy minority of the male population. Hence, despite women outnumbering men in grad school programs, the majority of those female grad students will either compete with each other for the same type of guy, hold out as a single woman and refuse to "settle" or date out. So guys who are having difficulty with women are justifiably dumbfounded and resentful. And they still have to put up with girls bytching about not finding a "good" man. Your claim that there's something wrong with black men who can't get black women in graduate school programs is absurdly incorrect and disingenuous.

This kind of fukkery by women happens ALL THE TIME on micro and macro levels in the real world. Graduate schools are not exempt environments.

Lol...that's just not how it works. People aren't looking down at other people in the same degree program. That is where most people find their long term mates and husbands.

You are just making shyt up now. Yes, if you can't find a woman in a sea of desperate women then something is wrong with you.

 

[William F. Russell]

Lol...that's just not how it works. People aren't looking down at other people in the same degree program. That is where most people find their long term mates and husbands.

You are just making shyt up now. Yes, if you can't find a woman in a sea of desperate women then something is wrong with you.

No.

The reality of the dating game reaffirms everything I said. 80% of women desire and choose to get involved with 20% of men (either the most established/best-looking men or the diametrically opposed low-hanging fruit). This means that female in grad school programs can and do overlook similarly situated males.

And most people in graduate school programs find their future spouses in professional settings.

You have no clue.

 

[SouthernBelle]

No.

The reality of the dating game reaffirms everything I said. 80% of women desire and choose to get involved with 20% of men (either the most established/best-looking men or the diametrically opposed low-hanging fruit). This means that female in grad school programs can and do overlook similarly situated males.

And most people in graduate school programs find their future spouses in professional settings.

You have no clue.

Actually mating becomes much more difficult once people have left school.

You have not clue and you're clearly undesirable.

 

[mamba]

I don't know any man in this generation (especially those with college educations) who are doing manual labor such as changing their own oil or fixing their own pipes. Cutting your own grass is different but most people who can afford it usually pay a teen or someone to do it.

I don't care what you believe. It's the truth.

I've been a six-figure man for years, now. And I still do a lot of manual things.

I had a father who taught me things.

fukk I look like not changing my own tire, oil, etc.?

 

[LadyK212]

I don't watch anything that disrespect black women or black men. My husband is Taiwanese, and I would never promote/join an interracial group (Anyone can date you want, why do I need a support group if you're happy?) that felt the need to bash black men. It's just more division which is stupid and does nothing more then distract you from real issues.

There are plenty of great black men and great black women in the world. If anyone believes dating out will solve your problems I'm sorry. If you're about nothing, you attract nothing, Like attracts like period.

 

[mamba]

May be the last genderwars thread

 

[mamba]

This has got to be one of the biggest lies and exaggerations I seen in here, maybe where you live, but there is plenty of brothers being self sufficient and handy, I'm guessing your area has these kind of men that can't do these things, but don't make it a broad statement like all men can't change their oil, cut grass, or fix a sink.

Black women are good at making blanket statements about Black men.

 

[SouthernBelle]

I've been a six-figure man for years, now. And I still do a lot of manual things.

I had a father who taught me things.

fukk I look like not changing my own tire, oil, etc.?

Yet you are still a loser.

 

[mamba]

I hope that you get an extra special wake up call one day.

 

[William F. Russell]

Actually mating becomes much more difficult once people have left school.

You have not clue and you're clearly undesirable.

Mating becomes more difficult for WOMEN once they leave school. Not the case for men.

This is EXACTLY why women who are career-driven or ride the cock carousel while they're in school set themselves up for failure in the future when it comes to dating.

And, bytch, I'm doing just fine. I'm intelligent, funny and am KILLING IT in my profession with my six figure salary. I use confused bytches like you as cumbuckets.

 

[SouthernBelle]

Mating becomes more difficult for WOMEN once they leave school. Not the case for men.

This is EXACTLY why women who are career-driven or ride the cock carousel while they're in school set themselves up for failure in the future when it comes to dating.

And, bytch, I'm doing just fine. I'm intelligent, funny and am KILLING IT in my profession with my six figure salary. I use confused bytches like you as cumbuckets.

Mating becomes more difficult for everyone after college because the dating pool narrows. In school settings you have people your age in one setting. That's not the case for after college life.

You couldn't even get my damn number to use me. You wouldn't get the time of day (the same way no one else gave you the time of day in graduate school).

 

[Taadow]

I need y'all to help me out with something...

On here I see people say (for lack of a better term) "accomplished "people only wanna date/marry people on their professional level.



Yet, on this clip I saw Jacque Reid try to hustle up a date with a newly divorced doctor.
Are doctors and newsfolk on the same level?

 

[William F. Russell]

Mating becomes more difficult for everyone after college because the dating pool narrows. In school settings you have people your age in one setting. That's not the case for after college life.

This is how I know you're stupid. Men who are about their business and have their professions and finances in order have absolutely no problem dating after school. Women, on the other hand, do. Case in point: most of the women in the OP. This is reality. Deal with it.

You couldn't even get my damn number to use me. You wouldn't get the time of day (the same way no one else gave you the time of day in graduate school).

bytch, I wouldn't need your number. I could pull you off the strength of my mouthpiece.

And, truth be told, not getting my share of women while I was in school was probably the best thing to happen to me. It forced me to focus on academics and my career. And I'm MUCH better for it now. And I'm smashing chicks for fun. But I will admit that it's difficult to find a loving, nurturing and relationship-minded black woman that isn't a slut, isn't a born-again virgin, isn't on that ticking time clock, or isn't a baby mama.