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The Nightly Show Panel - Black Women And Dating
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I don't believe it has to do with "better" per what is being said....it has now waded into just "different", as they are being fooled into thinking "different" must mean "better"....
Blackout
just your usual nerdy brotha
True, the value of being black has fallen when we decided to stop supporting our own and started being subservient to other races.
Which is why it's mainly people in our race like Yup who promote dating out.
I rarely heard people of other races promote dating out.
You got folk "dating out" before they even "date in", and it already be a foregone conclusion before they even hit the dating world, therefore the "value" of being black or "Black Love" never can even be envisioned....and these desperate panel discussions play on the mind each time they're done......
Building with a man means finding a man who has the potential to do great things in life and giving him support. A man is more appreciative and loving towards a woman who has been with him through thick and thin, and will reward her greatly.
And I just used the grad student as an example. It could be men from all walks of life that have the potential to be great providers for a woman.
Blackout
just your usual nerdy brotha
That is true.
They have double standards when it comes to black men and white men which is fukked up.
White men be wearing basic clothing getting women while black dudes gotta dress fresh to death and much more when it comes to female c00ns.
It's sad to see.
Truth be told, if you a grown ass woman and you still running into trash dudes then you may need to check yourself
Ladies if you still running into WorldStar dudes, you may need some self evaluating
Bros If y'all are still running into ketchup and hot sauce on everything ladies, you may need to check yourself
That was cool from teen to about 21 but if you still having contact with these people then YOU have some problems
Ladies if you still running into WorldStar dudes, you may need some self evaluating
Bros If y'all are still running into ketchup and hot sauce on everything ladies, you may need to check yourself
That was cool from teen to about 21 but if you still having contact with these people then YOU have some problems
Not always the case and I would not advocate any woman to get with certain men in hopes of loyalty or reward. Potential has to be demonstrated...a man going to school/etc...you can't be not doing anything productive and think that telling someone of your potential is achieving something.
but what of the women who are laywers being told to give the bus driver/cleaning man a chance? Or a reformed criminal a chance?
My point is when does it stop being about potential and just picking up scrubs to say you have a man.
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A lot of this is self inflicted, in my opinion. You wouldn't catch me going on a show to discuss this type of topic...So none of these forever single women can not find one man who demonstrates potential and can grow with? If that's the case, it's time to start reevaluating what you're doing wrong.
I rather date the man that I want that are meeting my standards whether black or other
Taadow
The StarchBishop™️
I thought it was a good discussion.
Well...maybe what I should say is it's the most civil discussion i've ever seen about the topic.
...it didn't really break new ground or anything, but you can't really do that in 7 minutes.
Well...maybe what I should say is it's the most civil discussion i've ever seen about the topic.
...it didn't really break new ground or anything, but you can't really do that in 7 minutes.
it is a matter of opinion; in a way there is no longer complete anonymity on the internet on the other hand this is supposedly black forum where I feel comfortable discussing it. You may have a point there...
Because if they expanded there horizons when it comes to black men I don't think they would have quite the problem they are having. Especially considering all the black men we hear from swearing how willing they are to treat a black woman if they would just give him the time of day. Unfortunately this guy is not that attractive,he's a nerd or he's too nice,doesnt have enough swag
These same black women are chomping at the bit,screaming to any black woman who will listen about how black women need to expand they horizons to other races they arent attracted to though
...Basically telling black women to be whores,because you don't need to tell black women who are attracted to white men to expand they horizons,they already open
....A black woman forcing herself to be attracted to white men,asians,latinos for the sake of money is being a whore.....I respect that less than the traditional wench who may have just been raised around white men and find them attractive
You a black woman who makes 80K so you just sooooo successful that you cant date a nikka making 30-40K a year
?...You need to at least agree with me ALOT of these black women need to get off they highhorse.By preaching this rhetoric in all actuality they just shrinking the pool of white men they desire so much....unless they believe the amount of rich white men who want black women,is larger than the pool of good eligible black men
That is of course once black women are willing to open the door for unnatractive black men the same way they are for white men they not attracted to
....or i guess they can keep fishing in that 2pac in a suit pool obsessively with no results
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