"the median number of lifetime sexual partners for men is around 6.3"

[Apollo Creed]

See, that's a good number. Unless you been married since 18, there is no reason a man who spent years single should not have smashed over 10 women.

Imma look at any nikka with less than 10 bodies in a questionable manner. You gotta either be ugly, a corn ball, or scared of rejection. An ugly nikka can easily smash a chick nobody wants, so that's least likely.

Some people are scared of women. I don't know any of them type of dudes personally, but I'm sure they exist. I'm talking to random chicks every day, I joke and flirt with every attractive chick I see and I'm never gonna press them. If I don't get a laugh or eye contact, I'll keep it moving.

Or nikkas can value being productive lmfao. nikkas always comes with Extremes.

If a nikka had 3 to 4 long term relationships from 16 to 35 + 1 bytch at spring break/guys trip to Vegas, yet during this time is in good health and financially secure, he gets the side eye?

this is why we are seen as unproductive.

 

[DetroitEWarren]

Or nikkas can value being productive lmfao. nikkas always comes with Extremes.

If a nikka had 3 to 4 long term relationships from 16 to 35 + 1 bytch at spring break/guys trip to Vegas, yet during this time is in good health and financially secure, he gets the side eye?

this is why we are seen as unproductive.

I feel that, but a man can always make time for a chick. You can smash something by accident breh lol. Ain't nobody too busy to not smash a fellow student or co worker or something.

And like I said, being married or consistently in a relationship changes my outlook on the situation.

 

[Apollo Creed]

I feel that, but a man can always make time for a chick. You can smash something by accident breh lol. Ain't nobody too busy to not smash a fellow student or co worker or something.

And like I said, being married or consistently in a relationship changes my outlook on the situation.

of course. What I was saying is lotta nikkas raised to play boyfriend in order to get sex, so I would argue the avg to above dude who isn't ugly or socially awkward is probably in the situation I outlined, where they locked in relationships and then had a few flings but when its all said and done it aint gonna be that much.

I`m not including the growing number of Incels but more so the dudes who do get sex on usually get it from relationships (whether legit or siutationship), the brehs that "get it in" are a different bucket (I group the dudes who run through ugly hoes + the dudes who run through avg chicks together as both require a specific personality trait or sometimes physical). I`m not counting tricks in this either.

 

[Koli_Kat]

Or nikkas can value being productive lmfao. nikkas always comes with Extremes.

If a nikka had 3 to 4 long term relationships from 16 to 35 + 1 bytch at spring break/guys trip to Vegas, yet during this time is in good health and financially secure, he gets the side eye?

this is why we are seen as unproductive.

I've been wayy more productive being single knocking off a chick every now and then than I've been when in a relationship doing weekly dates, attending her fam events, couple trips etc. So I don't get this logic. I'm more productive single then with a woman in my bed every night.

 

[NSSVO]

Breh I would have self worth if I held out like that

 

[Peter Popoff]

You a foul nikka, breh.






@Roger king is a cool ass nikka. He always positive reps and daps my shyt.

He reps you to neg me plus you're a trump supporter which makes that bıtch nıgga a hypocrite.

He gives off F.N.E. (Fụck Nıgga Energy).

@Roger king angry dap this post if you agree hoe.

 

[Vandelay]

See, that's a good number. Unless you been married since 18, there is no reason a man who spent years single should not have smashed over 10 women.

Imma look at any nikka with less than 10 bodies in a questionable manner. You gotta either be ugly, a corn ball, or scared of rejection. An ugly nikka can easily smash a chick nobody wants, so that's least likely.

Some people are scared of women. I don't know any of them type of dudes personally, but I'm sure they exist. I'm talking to random chicks every day, I joke and flirt with every attractive chick I see and I'm never gonna press them. If I don't get a laugh or eye contact, I'll keep it moving.

I hear you. But I was straight up corny, awkward, unconfident, broke, and I just wasn't fukking anything even if they threw it at me. I used to subscribe to that Disney movie line of thinking, just be a good dude and women will see you. And despite all those unattractive traits I just rapped off, women...actually bad women would check for me, I never was an ugly dude. But women could smell all those bad traits on me and would quickly lose attraction for me. I could tell you some stories in college and when I worked in radio how I would straight fumble; Mark Sanchez butt fumble 8's, 9's, and 10's frequently. I think I told a few stories on here in the "oblivious to chicks advances" thread.

I didn't really start to figure women out until I was 25, and that's honestly when my body count started to grow. In addition, I'm still pretty damn awkward and corny...I just leaned into my corniness and my awkwardness, and I have a little paper to spend. Most dudes don't have that wherewithal. Some dudes either never figure it out and keep running with that Disney movie bullshyt or they just give up.

 

[Apollo Creed]

I've been wayy more productive being single knocking off a chick every now and then than I've been when in a relationship doing weekly dates, attending her fam events, couple trips etc. So I don't get this logic. I'm more productive single then with a woman in my bed every night.

Same argument can be made dealing with different chicks bring different brands of drama or distractions. "Weekly dates" what does that even mean? Getting out of the house is a distraction? "fam events", nobody is having daily events where things become a burnden and what different is it fr going to a friend's event or your own family? Couples trips? You don't take vacation when you are single? What diff is it witn a plus 1? The frequency annually is still likely the same

 

[Shadow King]

you do. I say this because I myself had to step viewing the world from my lens and look at things from the Macro level. Because I`m able to do something doesn't mean everyone else is lol.

Most people (especially here) can't do this. Repped.

I hear you. But I was straight up corny, awkward, unconfident, broke, and I just wasn't fukking anything even if they threw it at me. I used to subscribe to that Disney movie line of thinking, just be a good dude and women will see you. And despite all those unattractive traits I just rapped off, women...actually bad women would check for me, I never was an ugly dude. But women could smell all those bad traits on me and would quickly lose attraction for me. I could tell you some stories in college and when I worked in radio how I would straight fumble; Mark Sanchez butt fumble 8's, 9's, and 10's frequently. I think I told a few stories on here in the "oblivious to chicks advances" thread.

I didn't really start to figure women out until I was 25, and that's honestly when my body count started to grow. In addition, I'm still pretty damn awkward and corny...I just leaned into my corniness and my awkwardness, and I have a little paper to spend. Most dudes don't have that wherewithal. Some dudes either never figure it out and keep running with that Disney movie bullshyt or they just give up.

The bolded is where I was, and where I'm at despite better understanding. Juice ain't worth the squeeze.

 

[DetroitEWarren]

of course. What I was saying is lotta nikkas raised to play boyfriend in order to get sex, so I would argue the avg to above dude who isn't ugly or socially awkward is probably in the situation I outlined, where they locked in relationships and then had a few flings but when its all said and done it aint gonna be that much.

I`m not including the growing number of Incels but more so the dudes who do get sex on usually get it from relationships (whether legit or siutationship), the brehs that "get it in" are a different bucket (I group the dudes who run through ugly hoes + the dudes who run through avg chicks together as both require a specific personality trait or sometimes physical). I`m not counting tricks in this either.

Fasho. My 2 closest mans would definitely play the "boyfriend" role while still smashing everything in sight. I don't do that. I don't play the "boyfriend" role with any chick. Especially if I don't plan on being faithful. Most chicks I have smashed were friends with benefits because I love the company of a woman and I don't care if it's a title or not. If the woman wants to put a title on it, and she's worth it, that's the only time I'll call a chick my official piece.

Main chick or not, I'm gonna treat all women good. Even the loose ones. While most of my dawgs that run thru chicks really don't respect the loose ones. I do.

They would play the boyfriend role with a good chick or a loose chick just to smash. I keep it 100 with women and if a chick is loose, I prefer her to be honest because I always keep it .

This shyt has caused A LOT of issues on my end though.

I'm naturally a good nikka so I've been played by bytches, but I'm also a nikka who keeps a lot of them close so I'm never left on some lonely shyt.

 

[Vandelay]

Most people (especially here) can't do this. Repped.

The bolded is where I was, and where I'm at despite better understanding. Juice ain't worth the squeeze.

The beautiful thing about life is, you don't have to actively seek out. Level up and they will come to you. That's half the battle.

I just hate to see folks give up and they're not old.

 

[Vandelay]

Fasho. My 2 closest mans would definitely play the "boyfriend" role while still smashing everything in sight. I don't do that. I don't play the "boyfriend" role with any chick. Especially if I don't plan on being faithful. Most chicks I have smashed were friends with benefits because I love the company of a woman and I don't care if it's a title or not. If the woman wants to put a title on it, and she's worth it, that's the only time I'll call a chick my official piece.

Main chick or not, I'm gonna treat all women good. Even the loose ones. While most of my dawgs that run thru chicks really don't respect the loose ones. I do.

They would play the boyfriend role with a good chick or a loose chick just to smash. I keep it 100 with women and if a chick is loose, I prefer her to be honest because I always keep it .

This shyt has caused A LOT of issues on my end though.

I'm naturally a good nikka so I've been played by bytches, but I'm also a nikka who keeps a lot of them close so I'm never left on some lonely shyt.

The bolded is not for everyone, but its real shyt.

I treat everyone the same regardless of status, title, or even if they got a rotation. A lot of women can't keep it 100 or be discreet with their shyt though.

I can smash for a few weeks or months and fade off if it was fleeting, but women moving like a lot of dudes with no game, being obvious as shyt that they smashing anything that moves and gives them attention.

 

[Apollo Creed]

Fasho. My 2 closest mans would definitely play the "boyfriend" role while still smashing everything in sight. I don't do that. I don't play the "boyfriend" role with any chick. Especially if I don't plan on being faithful. Most chicks I have smashed were friends with benefits because I love the company of a woman and I don't care if it's a title or not. If the woman wants to put a title on it, and she's worth it, that's the only time I'll call a chick my official piece.

Main chick or not, I'm gonna treat all women good. Even the loose ones. While most of my dawgs that run thru chicks really don't respect the loose ones. I do.

They would play the boyfriend role with a good chick or a loose chick just to smash. I keep it 100 with women and if a chick is loose, I prefer her to be honest because I always keep it .

This shyt has caused A LOT of issues on my end though.

I'm naturally a good nikka so I've been played by bytches, but I'm also a nikka who keeps a lot of them close so I'm never left on some lonely shyt.

Yeah thst be the thing when you a stand up guy with a life (meaning you like doing shyt) who hoes love, the whole “lover boy” thing, eventually hoes hit you with the “what are we” instead of just enjoying the ride.

 

[DetroitEWarren]

The bolded is not for everyone, but its real shyt.

I treat everyone the same regardless of status, title, or even if they got a rotation. A lot of women can't keep it 100 or be discreet with their shyt though.

I can smash for a few weeks or months and fade off if it was fleeting, but women moving like a lot of dudes with no game, being obvious as shyt that they smashing anything that moves and gives them attention.

Bro.......... I've dealt with this fasho.

Idk if it's a skill I was born with (Sagittarius can really read people and I'm not a Astronomy dude, but I know I was born with that skill ).

I catch EVERYBODY up who tells lies to me. I can read straight thru a lying ass female and they hate that shyt.

I don't go looking for shyt and I've never went thru a chick phone or anything like that, but I've caught chicks up from conversations we had at an earlier time that completely changed next time it was mentioned.

It's a gift and a curse because I read thru EVERYBODY just as a natural human characteristic. As soon as I meet somebody I'm breaking down their character in my head.

So many people are just liars and living a whole role in life. I love tf out of myself, so I will never play a role outside of my character.

 

[Capitol]

I guess I'm more introverted than I thought because, if yall are telling the truth about these numbers past 20 and all that, I can't even imagine even entertaining the amount of people yall talking about. I'd need some clones running around for all that. Or is it like yall just get on auto pilot until you get what you want