@ProfessionallyTrill
Man, reading your situation on the last page was something I was thinking about the other day. Specifically, ya baby moms having her brother trying to move in.
I've had non-nuclear family/people living with me my whole life. And shyt my sister was in and out the house too with her husband
and kids. I really had no room to complain, because hell I wasn't paying a bill and simply living under the roof with my mom. But as I get older I think, "what if my future wife got an ain't shyt sibling/relative that wants to live with us?" I'm a selfish dude when it comes to certain things and a quiet/uncluttered home is one thing I'm selfish about. I'll vet my future spouse and examine her whole fam before I settle down. I think what you described has me more scared than an unstable spouse/GF/babymama.
I hope everything works out in your favor bruh