I just think part 1 attracted many dude bros , who played an epic game of a guy losing his daughter and escorting a girl from point A to point B while doing some awesome stuff and killing many people along the way. Part 1 didn't really explore ellie being a lesbian/bi or any adult theme like that. The only part that cause a small commotion was the ending, a lot of people would have liked a simpler ending such as ellie being used for the cure without dying.
That’s what I think basically all this comes down too. People wanted a basic cookie cutter ass story.
If the story was about Tommy getting killed (because we like Tommy, but we don’t love Tommy like Joel), from something he did in his past as a Firefly, and Joel goes on another adventure with Ellie across the US to avenge Tommy’s death. And along the way, Ellie falls in love with a young man, Joel gets kidnapped by some basic antagonist that’s easy to make people hate him, and Ellie and her love interest go save Joel and kill the antagonist. Then Ellie and her boyfriend have a daughter and name her Sarah. People would love that basic ass shyt and it would be no controversy. But ND wanted something a little more layered and complex, and are now getting shytted on for it.
And also the fact is video games have so long ingrained to people that you are suppose to win. Doesn’t matter the genre. So the fact that this game’s ending leaves you exhausted, empty, and slightly confused instead of the typical gratification is causing fury. Good for ND to challenge people’s norms of how storytelling should go.
It’s like the ending of “No Country For Old Men”. The gratifying ending would be Llewelyn having one big showdown with Chigurh, killing him, taking off with the money, and living happily ever after with Carla Jean. But Llewelyn gets killed, Chigurh kills Carla Jean, takes off, and the Sheriff retires. It’s more powerful because, to understand the world he lives in. The morals and violence the sheriff is confronted with make little sense to him, and his eventual retirement amounts to the character choosing to live what time remains to him in peace.
Instead of Ellie choosing that peace she had with Dina and JJ at the farm, she could not let that need for revenge go, thus loosing Dina, JJ, and the peace she had at the farm to chase that revenge. Only to finally get to the doorstep of what she thinks she wanted, but understand that would most likely continue the circle of violence, once Lev eventually grows up and starts to get revenge on Ellie. So she decided to end it. Only she already lost everything, even her fingers to play guitar that she loved so much. I understand why it’s polarizing, but it was much more interesting that way for me.